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Say AAH! From cunnilingus tips to blow job techniques, become an oral sex legend with our expert advice. Learn about ways to stimulate your lovers using your mouth, how oral sex can enhance your sexual experiences, how to have safe oral sex, and more.
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Should You Use Condoms for Blowjobs?
Well, “Antibiotic Resistant Gonorrhea of the Throat” is a real thing.

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Unicorn Hunting: 5 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
One of the most popular fantasies is also one of the most complicated and difficult to achieve, but not all hope is lost!

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The Only Vibrator for Men Designed with Her in Mind
Discover the award-winning couples sex toy that’s wearable, adaptable, and powerfully pleasurable for him AND her!


Fun Positions for a Threesome
So, you've found the perfect third party to join your couple for some play...

Allen’s Corner: A Guy’s Perspective on MFM Threesomes
He went into the lifestyle feeling like the wingman to his wife looking for another man. Here’s how that’s changed with experience.

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Do You Need to be HOT and a WIFE to be a HOTWIFE?
One of the fastest-growing trends in the Consensual Non-Monogamy community, Hotwifing is a hot topic in the media. Here's Cate from Swinging Downunder's twitter experiment about what it means to be a hotwife.


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The Best Sex Toys for Couples
Sex tech keeps churning out amazing toys that take pleasure to new levels, and MysteryVibe’s collection is on my must-have list this holiday season. Here’s why!

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4 Oral-Sex Playlists That’ll Rock Your World
When it comes to oral sex, there aren’t many hard-and-fast rules. Everyone’s pleasure is different and experimenting is fun! But, there is one thing you should absolutely avoid at all costs — hastily pressing play on your “most liked” Spotify playlist right before getting hot and heavy.

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Oral On Screen: 5 of Our Favorite Scenes
A round-up of our picks for some of cinema’s best oral sex scenes


Featured Resource: SDC Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide
John & Jackie Melfi of Colette lifestyle clubs have made a Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide to help you be as prepared as possible so that you can have an amazing time, whether you’ve never been to one before or are a seasoned pro.

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Our Promescent Experience: Pleasure Products, Indeed!
Today’s pleasure products can seem downright magical with how effective they can be. Find out how Promescent is helping partners make love longer with their line of sensational gels and sprays.

Tips for Men: Shaven Not Scratched
It's a common practice for women to be well-groomed and shaven below the belt, but what about men?


What's the Deal with Butt Plugs Anyway?
Cate from Swinging Down Under shares her history with anal toys — from stretching kits to tails and everything in between.

Tom & Bunny Found a Bike Rally for Swingers!
ASN’s Tom and Bunny share their recent lifestyle experience at Louisiana Rumble.

Naughty Travel Packing List
When you have set your mind on a naughty lifestyle vacation, whether it’s a sexy cruise or swanky resort, it's best to go jet-setting as a lifestyle travel pro!