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Openlove 101: Swinging Advice for Non-Swingers

If you don't have an open relationship, can it ever be open? And will it hurt or heighten your coupledom if you do open it? John and Jackie discuss swinging for non-swingers in this Openlove 101 video.

Swingers club owners and lifestyle experts, John and Jackie Melfi, love talking to couples because it’s a fun topic that they’re so passionate about. What’s really fun is hearing how effective swinging strategies can be in non-swinging relationships! This is the kind of feedback they’re getting:

We don’t have an open relationship, but opening our relationship has changed our relationship.

Especially if you’ve been together with your partner for a long time; John and Jackie talk about how you can apply some swinging principles into your monogamous relationship while staying exclusive.

Openlove 101

John and Jackie Melfi are swingers in an open relationship. Together they are the driving force behind, a swingers' club brand with locations in Dallas, New Orleans, Houston, and Austin. John has been in the swinger club industry for 20 years, and when he and Jackie met, they expanded the business in order to reach and educate more couples and singles curious about the lifestyle. Their first venture together was the award winning lifestyle blog, Today this swinging powerhouse coach couples on the lifestyle, provide video content, blog weekly on the topic and have been the recipients of numerous industry awards. Visit to sign up for their FREE newsletter and receive updates on their videos and articles.
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