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Swinging 101: Virtual Dating Tips, Etiquette & More!

Learn how to create a sexy dating profile, the best ways to seduce swingers, what to do when swinging goes wrong, and more!

Swinging isn't always easy, but it CAN go smoothly.

To help you slip into swinging with well-lubricated ease, I'm bringing my popular Swinging 101 series back for a second season, with new topics that will entice and educate you!

Lexi Sylver Swinging 101 Webinars

What to Expect from Swinging 101 Webinars

What people are saying about Swinging 101:

"Wow! Lexi is shamelessly awesome! What a great open and honest forum for newbies. The session was full of practical considerations for anyone considering or already in the Lifestyle. We can’t wait for the next sessions. If you haven’t signed up, we recommend doing so now! Thank you to Lexi. Job well done!!!"


When you're armed with info and confidence, swinging can open you up to an exciting new world of erotic possibilities and deep connections! If you've ever thought about exploring "The Lifestyle" — whether solo or partnered up — you'll want to join me to get the best (and hottest) expert tips about swinging and open relationships.

You'll also have the opportunity to ask me anything during the Q&A segments in each of my webinars.

Whether you're a newbie to the lifestyle or an experienced swinger looking to boost your skills and enhance your relationship, it will be my pleasure to help guide you along your swinging journey!

Swinging 101 Topics & Dates

Each virtual ticket includes access to the live webinar, as well as a link to the webinar video (which will be shared with you after the event). These webinars are FREE exclusively for SDC members, so sign up as an SDC member today if you're not already part of the community.

Swingers Etiquette
September 25th, 2021 from 7:00 PM – 8:30 PM ET

With all the unwritten rules about swinging, it can be challenging to navigate “The Lifestyle” — especially for newcomers! I’ll give you key advice to help you explore with ease and confidence and maximize your swinging sex-cess. You’ll learn the best ways to approach and flirt with other swingers and tips on attending sex parties and clubs. We’ll delve into how to be respectful and establish consent, and smooth ways to talk about sensitive subjects like safer sex and sexual health. Don’t miss out on these swinging essentials!

Swinger Seduction Tips
October 16th, 2021 from 7:00 PM – 8:30 PM ET

Do you ever feel nervous or intimidated about making the first move? Want to smooth out the kinks in your seduction skills? I’ll share my Lexual tips to help you feel more confident in yourself so you can enjoy the pleasures of dating and playing in the lifestyle! In this webinar, you’ll refine your sensual prowess to more boldly approach and flirt with single and coupled swingers, whether you meet online or in person.

Virtual Swinging Tips
November 6th, 2021 from 7:00 PM – 8:30 PM ET (rescheduled to November 13th, 2021 at 7 PM ET)

Connecting and flirting online can be tough… and competitive. How do you choose the perfect pictures for your profile and write a bio that’s sexy and interesting enough to stand out and attract potential playmates? From enhancing your dating profile to sexting and messaging and video chats, we’ll explore how you can take your virtual swinging game to the next level!

What to Do When Swinging Goes Wrong
November 20th, 2021 from 7:00 PM – 8:30 PM ET

Nearly EVERYONE in the lifestyle has an experience that did not go quite as they hoped or expected… and that’s okay! So, how can you handle a scenario that goes awry in the moment, as well as in the aftermath? I’ll share some of the most common swinger mishaps and how to navigate them, including dealing with jealousy, overcoming performance anxiety, and moving forward after sexual or emotional boundaries have been broken or pushed too far for your comfort. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or an experienced swinger, you can benefit from the advice in this webinar.

Sexy (and REAL!) Swinger Stories
December 4th, 2021 from 7:00 PM – 9 PM ET

This special edition features a surprise group of real-life swingers who are excited to share their tantalizing tales with all of you! Join us to be aroused, inspired, and shocked by these sexy stories about our experiences in the swinging lifestyle.

Don't miss out! I can't wait to chat with all of you about swinging and open relationships!

Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. As an entrepreneur, podcaster, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and her personal blog. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality. Find out more at
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