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Aug 14, 2026
Fort Lauderdale, FL
❤️ Trapeze FL
We live too far away to come more often. We wish you guys would let us franchise a location in Volusia County!
Aug 12, 2026
San Juan, PR
About last night
Que increíble se pasa aquí, tuve el placer de tener mi primera fantasía de forma espontánea, tremenda experiencia
Aug 11, 2026
New Orleans, LA
One of the best
Been a while since I been around, but enjoyed night.
Aug 10, 2026
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Music
I want to thank Trapeze for listening to our feedback. The music last Saturday 08.08.2026 was amazing—a huge difference from previous nights! Way to listen to your customers. I’m always happy to give credit where it’s due. Keep it up!
Aug 10, 2026
Hollywood, FL
New Ownership is Great
We were at the Rooftop this week. We met the new owner. He is a great guy that really wants to make your experience a memorable one. The pool is perfect for conversations and for meeting people. We met some very nice couples. The facilities are clean and had nice lounge chairs. The DJ was great. They had a BBQ all day with unlimited burgers, sausages, hot dogs, Chip and Dorito's, all included in the price of admission. IT's BYOB, they provide the mixers. Parking on site is free and convenient. We highly recommend The Roof Top Resort in Hollywood FL. We can't wait to go back.
Aug 10, 2026
Manhattan, NY
Checkmate review
We had a great time at Checkmate! The staff were professional and accomodating. We appreciated the clubs couple and single lady only policy. The guests were attractive and open minded, featuring some beautiful and sexy couples. The lockers and playrooms were tidy and well maintained. We will be back!
Aug 09, 2026
Oklahoma City, OK
Sketchy
This "club" is up a flight of rusted stairs in a run down motel. The pool was drained, the lobby locked up tight and a bullet-proof sliding window was where you checked in. We had booked a room and the person behind the window, as well as the email, told us to go to the club after 4:00 pm to obtain access to our room. Up the rickety stairs we went. No one answered the door. No one answered the phone. No refunds. Doubt we would have stayed in the hotel at all. We booked another hotel and left. Did not return for the "party."
Aug 08, 2026
Hollywood, FL
Loveeeeee
Loved it. Definitely will be back
Aug 05, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Banned for no reason
We had some fun and interesting times going here over the last five years, but all it seems like all things must end. We were recently permanently banned back in May from the Secrets facilities for something we never did. This wasn't the first time they tried to ban us, hilariously they tried to flag my husband and say something was up with their facial recognition system a few weeks before and he had to have that sorted out. It seemed like someone was out to get us and our running joke was always that we will get banned one day because it seems like all the real swingers get banned eventually because the place started catering to content creators in the last couple years. I guess they have to follow the money and forget about the people that got them there. It's funny how we were banned, they accused me (a female) of touching another woman without consent in the playroom on a Tuesday when there were not any women even inside the playroom, it was just all single men. Do you know how many times I was touched without consent and never said anything? I only ever said anything exactly once when a security guard touched me inappropriately and I was called a liar by a manager (who received his karma shortly after) and threatened to be banned for that. So I stopped speaking up for myself and we decided to handle our business on our own if something happened. I could write a book about my experiences at this place, and maybe I will. For all the good times there were probably five bad times and we were gearing up to stop going for a while anyways to see if they hopefully go back to catering to their original clientele. If we can prevent one or two couples from attending this place with our warning, we hope that we can. You will eventually get banned if you keep going there, we are not the only ones that this has happened to.
Aug 05, 2026
Columbia, SC
Great Club great time
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Club Dalliance is hands down one of the best lifestyle clubs I've visited. The atmosphere is welcoming, the music keeps the dance floor energized, and the themed nights make every visit feel unique. The staff is friendly and professional, and everyone does a great job of making guests feel comfortable and respected. The club is clean, well-organized, and has a fun, upscale vibe that's perfect for meeting like-minded people. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or have been part of it for years, this is a great place to relax, socialize, dance, and enjoy a memorable night out. I'll definitely be back!
Aug 04, 2026
Las Vegas, NV
Best LS Venue in Vegas
This club is an absolute must for us every time we’re in Vegas! We always make sure to spend at least one night here because the energy is unmatched. The atmosphere is sexy, welcoming, and incredibly respectful, making it easy to relax, connect, and enjoy the experience. One of our favorite things is that we’ve not only had amazing nights but have also learned some incredibly fun BDSM techniques while exploring in a safe, positive environment. Every visit leaves us with unforgettable memories, and we can’t wait to come back!
Jul 30, 2026
Dallas County, TX
My favorite Dallas Spot
Safe environment Security on point Dj coming with the vibes and the ladies are beautiful highly recommend
Jul 29, 2026
Las Vegas, NV
Fun place to meet other coues
We come up often and always make time to visit whispers. Fun social lifestyle club without the vibe of a high school dance 😂
Jul 28, 2026
Wills Point, TX
Absolutely Fabulous
Loved the hosts and all the people. Everyone made us feel so welcomed. Great atmosphere and great times. Can't wait to go back.
Jul 27, 2026
Las Vegas, NV
First time
My wife and I attended our first ever LS event at the Sunday pool party. It was absolutely amazing. The volunteers made us feel welcome right off the bat and gave us a tour of the facility. The guests were also very nice and welcoming. As first timers we were a bit nervous, but almost immediately were very comfortable, and had a great time. We will definitely be back every time we visit Las Vegas. Highly recommend
Jul 26, 2026
Dallas, NC
Wasn’t Disappointed
First time visiting and had an absolute blast. Everyone was very polite and welcoming. The only complaint we had was a couple of the single guys come off as creepiers and need to learn closed door and blinds means private and not trying to peep in lol. Other than that clean, great, fun place to let loose.
Jul 25, 2026
Oklahoma City, OK
GREAT PEOPLE
Love this club and the people that run it. So safe and always looking out for their members.Definitely an LS club you will enjoy!!
Jul 25, 2026
Hoover, AL
Good Times
Lustful is hands down one of the friendliest and most welcoming clubs we’ve visited. Great atmosphere, amazing people, and a fun, respectful environment. We can’t wait to come back!
Jul 22, 2026
Littleton, CO
First time in the best!
We recently went to Scarlett Ranch on a Saturday night. It was our first lifestyle club/venue. We are so impressed that any place we go after this will have a hard time measuring up. The grounds are beautiful, the building was inviting, rustic and cozy. It felt like a rustic hunting lodge. All the staff were friendly and helpful. People were everywhere in all kinds of different outfits. There was a live, DJ, a giant foam pit, and amazing sites to see wherever you turn. We don’t live in Denver, Colorado, but we will be back for further adventures!
Jul 21, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Our favorite place
We love coming our condo and staying . The staff is so friendly and helpful ! the bartenders always make us feel welcome and take good care of us . We would definitely recommend anyone in the lifestyle to vist and stay the night and enjoy everything!
Jul 17, 2026
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Do Not Support This Establishment
I will never return to this establishment. First, their website states that Thursdays are free for women. If the free admission applies only before 10:00 PM, that needs to be made very clear. If it was and I missed it, then ok, that's on me. I arrived after 10:00 PM and was told it would cost **$110** for a single woman to enter on a Thursday night. That price is completely unreasonable. The only kind thing I can say here is that the manager dropped the price to a $50 membership fee, which I was expecting to pay. Next, I went to the bar and ordered a Paloma. I brought my own grapefruit soda, but the drink was terrible. I asked the bartender to add something to improve it. When he grabbed the simple syrup, a black bug was inside the bottle, and it ended up in my drink. When I pointed it out, instead of apologizing and making me a new drink, the bartender argued with me, insisting it was a lime seed. A lime seed is light yellow or off-white. What was floating in my drink was black. It was clearly not a lime seed. A simple apology and a replacement drink would have resolved the situation, but instead, I was met with unnecessary defensiveness. Then I went into the play area. I was given a towel, laid it out, and immediately noticed multiple bloodstains on it. I took it to a security guard and explained that the towel they had given me had bloodstains. His response was, "Those are not bloodstains. We wash our towels every day." I'm sorry, but washing a towel doesn't magically remove every bloodstain. If a towel is permanently stained with blood, it should be removed from circulation. This is a basic hygiene and health issue. Finally, as I was leaving, the manager (or owner—I wasn't sure which) asked if everything was okay. I told him it wasn't, and I explained every issue I had experienced that night. Rather than acknowledging any of my concerns or offering an apology, his response was, "Did you get your bottle already?" It came across as if he were simply trying to get me out the door rather than addressing legitimate complaints. I told him it was obvious he didn't care and that I would be leaving an honest review. He said nothing. The lack of accountability was the most disappointing part of the experience. Between the bug in my drink, the stained towel, the dismissive staff, and the excessive cover charge, I left feeling that this venue does not prioritize cleanliness, customer service, or the overall guest experience. Based on my experience, I cannot recommend this venue.
Jul 15, 2026
Euless, TX
best club in dallas
Been 4 times or so and had a great time every time. very chill vibes and very clear on everything. They will give a tour if its your first time as well.
Jul 13, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Paradise
We are fairly new to this LS, and I am blown away by the atmosphere! Everyone we have met has been nice, like a real community. This is the second LS place we visited (the first was…. not Secrets). We first visited back in February (maybe) to check out Club Swanker (the dungeon), and have been back 6 or 7 times 🤷♂️and just love it! every weekend seems to have a slightly different vibe, just depends on the crowd, but nothing bad. The Dungeon is top class. We are veterans in that LS, members to the local Woodshed over a decade, and we have played played in dungeons all over the country in that scene. Silver (the lead DM ‘Dungeon Master/Monitor) and Eddie (Dungeon Monitor / Assistant - I may be spelling his wrong) are really top shelf people, all the way! They aren’t just a passive oversight (which is more common in that space), they will take time to educate, demonstrate, and assist (if wanted) with scenes. There is also a mistress that assists a lot, we just haven’t met her. Her work also looks impressive. The rooms are great, the group room is great, if you want to be in the party, face interior, if you want to party and also want more quiet rest, exterior is for you. I read a lot of reviews where people want one and got the other and weren’t happy. This is simply a preference. The pool has a state of the art filtration system, making it a VERY clean place. I think the thing I love most though, is all of you, the community in general. I’ve never felt pressure there, no bad vibes. Everyone has been super friendly (in a legitimate platonic way). I know there will be an exception. We just haven’t found it yet. I really have nothing but good things to say. No, actually, there is one negative, I’ve been trying to follow you guys for a bit and my request is still pending.. 😤😤😤. No worries, still coming back…
Jul 12, 2026
Trinity, TX
Had a Blast!
Great place, well run, staff is extremely helpful and the owner is a really cool guy 10/10 will definitely be back!!
Jul 10, 2026
Louisville, KY
Bad customer service
Filled out the entire application process, uploaded pics of drivers licenses and sent screenshots of other club memberships then were asked to come do an in person 20 min interview after all of that. Questioned them about the safety of the club if this is the type of process they put new members through and then they said our application was denied for asking questions about this intense process. Would not recommend this place to anyone in the lifestyle. This is over the top and they don’t even attempt to try and explain why.
Jul 08, 2026
San Juan, PR
great place
love the spot!!!
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