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Couples’ Guide to Ultimate Anal & P-Spot Play with a Vibrator
Never tried anal play or want to take it to the next level? You need to try this super bendy finger-like vibrator!

SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast
SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast
Our Naughty N’awlins 2021
Have you ever had someone let you know how you have positively influenced them, and it just melts your heart?

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Sexual Trauma Can Hijack Your Enjoyment in The Lifestyle
Participating in The Lifestyle can be as easy and natural as any other hobby or past-time for most people. That said, there are many other wonderful people who get tripped up when they try to join in on all the fun. Why? Sexual Trauma!

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How to Have More FUN and Less DRAMA at Lifestyle Events
How to Navigate Sex Parties & Events so that you can have More FUN and Less Drama.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

SDC Dr Cari Oneal Sexologist Squirting Orgasms
Squirting Orgasms: How-Tos, Myths, and Facts
Did you know that squirting orgasms are a sex skill that can be learned? Find out how you can learn how to have — and give — squirting orgasms!

Dr. Cari Oneal
How is EFT Used to Cultivate a Great Sex Life?
The Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is now being used to deliver stunning results in sex and relationships!

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Screwball Love: A Virgin, a Bi-Threesome, a Reconciliation
The telling of this erotic threesome virginity story was so hot that it reignited a marriage.

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My First Kinky Trio
She found the kinky couple to take her threesomes to levels she didn’t even know she craved.

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Fantasy Land for Unicorns: Luxuriate at Sea Mountain Ranch Spa
Did you know that there’s a unicorn paradise right in Palm Springs?!

SDC MysteryVibe Tenuto Lifestyle Sex Toy App
SDC MysteryVibe Tenuto Lifestyle Sex Toy App
Want Longer-Lasting, Mind-Blowing Sex? Try Tenuto!
The ultimate couples vibrator that will blow both your minds: meet Tenuto!

SDC Pure Orgasmic Love Dragonfly Podcast Intimacy Relationships
SDC Pure Orgasmic Love Dragonfly Podcast Intimacy Relationships
Platonic What? Yes, Intimacy!
Intimacy is an essential part of life. As social animals, we need to feel connected to those closest to us. This closeness feeds our sense of wellbeing. Yet, many of us are lacking intimacy in our lives.

SDC Pure Orgasmic Love Dragonfly Mexico Cancun Sexperience 2021
SDC Pure Orgasmic Love Dragonfly Mexico Cancun Sexperience 2021
Finding LOVE in Mexico Pt. 2: Sexperience 2021
Dragonfly was invited to educate at the SDC event Sexperience 2021 in Cancun, and they recap their experience in this episode, calling it "one of our favorite events we have ever done."

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4 Lube Myths Debunked
Lexi Sylver breaks down the 4 biggest myths about lube and shares her tips on living your slipperiest, most Lexual, and pleasurable sex life.

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Ladies First! Checkmate Beverly Hills Coming Soon!
Lexi Sylver interviews Checkmate NYC swinger club owner Gianni for insider info on this swanky lifestyle destination and its expansion into LA.

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Interesting Morning Walk
What started as an innocent morning walk routine around the local park turned into a blow job, a drooling pussy, and plans for more.

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Mind-Blowing Gangbang
Hannah sought more freeing sexual experiences and found them — and so much more — at a swingers club.

SDC Sex Positive Me Dark Tantra BDSM
Dark Tantra
Have you ever been curious about the spiritual side of BDSM and Tantra? Yes, there is a spiritual connection with both. We will be exploring them in Dark Tantra.

Lexi Sylver Webinar Swinger Club Parties Etiquette
Swinging 101: Swingers Clubs & Parties Etiquette
Learn more about the season finale of Swinging 101 Season 1: Swingers Clubs and Parties Etiquette on May 15th, 2021 at 8pm ET.

Lexi Sylver Mating-Season 1st Anniversary Virtual Party
Lexi Sylver Mating-Season 1st Anniversary Virtual Party
Celebrating 1 Year of Mating Season: Join My Virtual Party!
Get Lexual with swinger and author Lexi Sylver to celebrate the first anniversary of her erotic book, Mating Season! Discover how you can join the Lexuality.

SDC My Sexiest Valentines Day Swinger Stories Writing Contest Threesome
Threesome with DD & Busty: Valentine's Day Story WINNER!
The owner of an iconic local flower shop falls into a threesome with local podcasters DD and Busty on Valentine’s Day Eve.

SDC Intimacy Matters Colin Richards Sexual Health COVID Pandemic Sex Relationships Surveys
Sex in Lockdown: How Did it Affect Us?
How has a year of government restriction due to the global COVID pandemic influenced peoples' sex lives, and how has the lack of physical touch and intimacy affected their libido and, in many cases, feelings of self-worth?

SDC Lexi Sylver Body Image Positivity Physical Mental Health
Perfectly Imperfect: A Rant About Body Image
Lexi is here to remind us that the perfect beach body is YOUR body — at the beach, enjoying the sunshine and sand, wearing whatever makes you feel good.

SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast Pleasing Partners
SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast Pleasing Partners
It’s Not Just One Thang
It’s not just one thing… What are we talking about? There’s always more than one way to please your partner! Listen in on this episode to find out.