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You don't have to be in a relationship to be a swinger and enjoy the open lifestyle. Single swingers and polyamorous people, learn how to navigate the open lifestyle with these expert tips.
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30 Best Sex Toys for Adults to Spice Up Your Sex Life
Whether you’re craving spicier solo play or more orgasmic partnered sex, here are the best sex toys to check out in your favorite sex shops.

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The Dark Side of Ghosting in the Swinger Lifestyle
Can we all agree that ghosting sucks and is rude, but it is a part of life now? Learn how to deal with ghosting and its alternatives.

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Lauren explains why respect is one of her favorite aspects of the lifestyle.

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Be the Better Bull
The how, the what, and the who of recreational sex with a Hotwife

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Don't Fire the Secretary: Stress and Emotional Sovereignty
It is difficult to see our partners in emotional distress, especially if we feel our actions have caused or contributed to it. The knee-jerk reaction to fix the problem by removing the stressor is not necessarily always the healthiest answer. Surprising? Read on...

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The Perils of Personal Silicone Lubricant: Why Health Matters
In the realm of intimate products, silicone-based lubricants have gained popularity due to their smooth texture and long-lasting capabilities. However, beneath the allure of convenience lies a concerning truth: personal silicone lubricants may not be the healthiest option for intimate use.

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Embracing Ethical Non-Monogamy: The Power of Relationship Coaching
Learn how coaching can help individuals and couples embark on a journey of self-discovery, build stronger connections, and cultivate healthier ENM relationships.

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New Book! An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy
Renowned erotic educator Taylor K. Sparks releases new book that helps African-Americans understand alternative love styles

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23 Things to Know Before Going to a Swingers or Sex Club
If you’ve ever thought about going to a sex club or swingers club, but you weren’t sure what to expect or how to approach everything, then this blog is for you!

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Sex Toys for Men!
Sex toys for men tend to be taboo; however, Stephanie from EYI declares 2023 to be the year of sex toys for men!

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Help, I'm Addicted to Porn!
When porn addiction... ain't what it seems

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People in the open lifestyle are barraged with a lot of misconceptions about us and our relationships. Here are five big ones.

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What You Need to be Non-Monogamous
When people become interested in non-monogamy, swinging, or lifestyle clubs or parties, some are concerned about what they need to be in the lifestyle. I’m here to tell you what that is; the answer might surprise you.

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Masturbation Mastery
Masturbation not only feels good — it’s also good for your health!

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