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You don't have to be in a relationship to be a swinger and enjoy the open lifestyle. Single swingers and polyamorous people, learn how to navigate the open lifestyle with these expert tips.
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What If You’re Not Into Them?
Sitting at dinner and feeling no spark? Lauren Hayes of SwingingCoach shares how to say no with kindness and confidence, and why expectation kills desire.

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What We Didn’t Know About The Lifestyle
Frisky Neighbors Saphyre and Carnelian share the surprises of their early lifestyle days, from endless costume themes to learning swinging isn't polyamory.

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Awkward Moments and How We Survived Them
Carnelian and Saphyre of Frisky Neighbors share their funniest lifestyle mishaps, from missed afterparties to curious pets, and how laughter kept them going.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.

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How Did You Get THAT From What I Just Said?
Ever say something you swear was clear… and your partner responds like you spoke an entirely different language? That “dog hearing a weird noise” look, followed by: “How did you get THAT from what I just said?!”


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Open Relationships: Your Questions Answered
Bring your boldest questions to Frisky Neighbors, as this live webinar delivers honest, no-judgment answers about open relationships.

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Your Words Are Arrows: How One Sentence Can Damage Trust
Your words are arrows. Once they leave your mouth, you don’t get to call them back.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?

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Mastering Your Modern Dating Game (Part 2)
Join Victoria for Part 2 of Mastering Your Modern Dating Game — practical tools to date with confidence and clarity.

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Mastering Your Modern Dating Game
Matchmaker Victoria shares her webinar advice on photos, honesty and first impressions for singles and couples dating online.


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Sexual Health Bug Out Bag: Sex Education
Eve unpacks what really belongs in your sexual health kit, from condoms and lube to morning-after pills, Doxy-PEP and the throat swab most people skip.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How Swinging Can Improve Your Marriage
Can an open relationship boost your marriage? Read on!