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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.

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Swinging in the Midwest: America’s Secret Swinger Playground
Midwest swingers will lend you a cup of sugar — AND share their partner, too!

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How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.


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How to Meet Swingers Near You
Safe, sexy, and smart strategies for meeting swingers wherever you are.

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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.

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Same Room vs. Separate Room Swinging: Which Is Right For You?
How can swinger couples navigate playing in the same or separate rooms?


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Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.

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Why People Take Breaks From the Swinging Lifestyle
Pressing pause on the swinging lifestyle is healthy, but why do couples do it?

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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.


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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.

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Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?


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Great Play Starts with Great Agreements
Some people hear the words 'agreements' or 'boundaries' and think of rules, restrictions, or a list of “don’ts.” I see them differently.

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Mile High and Hot: Exploring the Lifestyle Scene in Denver
For couples looking for a seductive adventure among the mountains, Denver might just become your new favorite destination.

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Why Denver’s Lifestyle Scene Is Perfect for Newbie Swingers
The Mile High City might seem an unlikely contender for a swinging community hotspot, but that’s exactly why it’s perfect for those taking their first steps into this exciting, sexy world.