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Is Polyamory or Swinging Just Cheating With Extra Steps?
Cheating is defined by what's hidden; ENM by what's agreed. Here's why the difference isn't semantics, and how to answer the question with grace.
What Is DADT (Don't Ask, Don't Tell) in Non-Monogamy
DADT gets a bad rap. People hear "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and assume secrecy, avoidance or a relationship built on not-knowing.
Polyamory vs. Open Relationship vs. Swinging
Non-monogamy terms get used interchangeably, but they're not. Here's how to tell them apart and pick the structure that fits you.
Everyone Feels Jealousy
Regardless of whether or not you are non-monogamous, jealousy is a natural human emotion.
The Jealousy Reset Protocol
Jealousy isn't the problem. What you do in the sixty seconds after you feel it, that's the whole ballgame.
Is Non-Monogamy a Sign Something's Missing?
That second thought is the dominant cultural script, and it shows up almost everywhere people go looking for answers, including in AI relationship tools.
My Partner Wants to Open Our Relationship and I Don't
I'll lead with what's wrong with him, or with how a genuine desire and a genuine no can only end one way: slowly, in silence.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Handle Rejection in the Swinging Lifestyle
Because it happens to everyone, and how you respond says a lot about your reputation.
Swingers Cruises Dos and Don’ts: Your Guide to Smooth Sailing
How to flirt and pace yourself on a swingers cruise so your week at sea leaves you glowing.
Nudist vs. Clothing-Optional Travel Destinations: What's the Difference?
The real difference between nudist and clothing-optional travel, and how to pick the one that fits your desires.
Packed and Ready: What to Bring on Your Swingers Vacation
What should you slip into your suitcase when the getaway is anything but vanilla?
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
6 Good Reasons to Open Your Relationship
More and more couples admit to being tempted to open their relationship. Given that you're reading this, you might be, too.