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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Performance Anxiety in The Swinging Lifestyle: How Men Can Cope
How can men manage pressure and deepen pleasure in the swinging lifestyle? Read on!

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Single Males Dos and Don'ts
Be the single guy everyone wants on the guest list.

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.


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The Role of Aftercare in Swinging: Why Debriefing Matters
The secret that makes swinging work and keeps swinger couples connected is easier to do than you think.

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How Can Single Men Meet Swinger Couples?
9 tips for single guys in the lifestyle to connect with swinger couples.

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Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know
How can sexual past sexual trauma impact your or your partners' lifestyle journey? In this very important episode, Cate talks to a counselor! A must-listen for all lifestylers.


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Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.

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Sexual Health in The Swinging Lifestyle
Balancing passion and protection is key for long-term swinger pleasure!

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Swinging in Iceland: Where Desire Meets Northern Fire
An intimate exploration of Iceland’s understated swinging culture.


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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.

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Swinging in France: Desire, Discretion, and Libertine Freedom
Uncover the elegant pulse of France’s modern swinger lifestyle scene.

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Swinging in Cap d’Agde: Inside the Naturist Village
The French coast’s most liberated escape, revealed.


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Cap d’Agde 101: Where Naturism and Swinging Meet
One of the sexiest destinations in Europe, Cap d’Agde lets you explore how naturism and the swinging lifestyle mix in this one-of-a-kind destination.

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Offense vs. Defense: The Game Playing Out in Relationships
What if relationship growth didn’t have to come from conflict or repair? This article unpacks the idea of offense vs. defense in relationships, using a real retreat insight to explore how proactive care, intentional connection, and ongoing maintenance can deepen intimacy — particularly within ethical non-monogamy.

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Swinging in Paris: Inside the City of Light’s Lifestyle Scene
In Paris’s after-hours landscape, attraction and opportunity for open-minded swingers are always ready to unfold.