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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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Talk Before You Touch: Communication that Makes Play Hotter
In the lifestyle, communication isn’t just about words; it’s about connection, trust, and keeping everyone on the same page.

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Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know
How can sexual past sexual trauma impact your or your partners' lifestyle journey? In this very important episode, Cate talks to a counselor! A must-listen for all lifestylers.

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Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Get into the Swinging Lifestyle
New to swinging? Here are some introductory tips!

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Are Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic?
Cate & Darrell unpack their hot takes on dirty vanillas in the swinging lifestyle


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How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events
Are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?

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STI Testing for Swingers: Why “Safer Sex” Beats “Safe Sex”
Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts — and two experts.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?

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Communicating Through Complexity
Hosts Adam and Pris dive deep into the nuances of communication within intimate relationships.

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The Journey Begins: Our 14-Year Swing & Poly Story
Hosts Adam & Pris introduce their story —14 years together, 13 in the lifestyle, including a polyamory experiment.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Trust, Transparency, and Intimacy
Hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complex world of open relationships, discussing their personal experiences and boundaries within the swinging lifestyle.

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QUICKIE: Sensual vs Non Sensual
An honest and entertaining look at how sexual wants evolve over time, tracing one couple's journey from past experiences to a newfound desire for something more sensual.