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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Navigating Stormy Seas! Drama in the Lifestyle
The Friends with Pineapples crew delves into the complexities of navigating tough situations and drama that may arise, from misunderstandings and jealousy to conflicts and boundary violations.

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E. Michelle Certifies Pleasure to Future Pleasure Coaches
Loving what you do and being good at what you do are two entirely different things. Fortunately for clients and future intimate coaches and sex educators, E. Michelle has perfected both.

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A Heart to Heart Conversation with Courtney Brame of SPFPP
Does herpes have a bigger stigma than other STIs? Why does herpes have such a stigma in the Black community? Join Taylor for this insightful sexual health conversation with Courtney Brame!


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Shave That Junk Guys, Name That VaJayJay, and Sloppy BJs
Sexy & Jagundo discuss gnarly smells during wild sex and more in this wild episode!

How Queer Love and Ethical Non-Monogamy Saved My Life: Margo Renate
Queer love is a savior for many — and so is ethical non-monogamy.

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Welcome to the Lifestyle
Join Jayson and discover the Lifestyle on their first episode!


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Debunking the Secret Swinger Symbols and Codes
Jayson discusses the supposed secret symbols that swingers use and debunks some of the myths surrounding them.

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You Raise Me Up: Positives of the Lifestyle
Let Jayson share the positives of a supportive lifestyle and the power of kind words.


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Brooklyn Xrated Curated Fantasies at Grey House Society
If you and/or your partner(s) have sexual, kink, or cosplay fantasies and are wondering where to get them fulfilled... look no further.

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Types of Polyamorous Relationships
From hierarchical polyamory to non-hierarchical polyamory, from DADT polyamory to Kitchen Table polyamory, and so on, we'll explore the different ways that these dynamics can play out.


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Polybombing: Your Partner Wants to Be Polyamorous
Has your monogamous partner expressed that they are polyamorous or want to practice polyamory? Did this revelation come as a shock to you? If so, you have just been “polybombed.”

Sharing a High-Value Man in a Polyamorous Hinge Dynamic
Char, Josh, and Liv share what Josh did as the hinge partner to make their poly triad relationship stronger and healthier.

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Overcoming Jealousy & Insecurity in Polyamory
Mick, who is part of a polyamorous couple, discusses his various strategies to foster trust, communication, and personal growth in the face of jealousy and insecurity.