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The Intersection of Swinging & Polyamory
Adam & Pris of Beyond Monogamy open up about their journey from swinging to polyamory and why speaking up matters more than keeping the peace.
Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.
Love Maps: Exploring Polyamory Part One
Dr. Eli Sheff covers the basics of polyamory: what it is, how it's distinct from other forms of consensual non-monogamy, and how people practice it in real life.
The Healing Smile: Taoist Tantra Guided Meditation
We can all benefit from the soothing power of healing ourselves, and Kayteezee is here to guide us into our bodies.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.
Interview with Mr & Mrs B on Relationships Part 1
We had a fun, wine-filled interview with Mr B, author of "Every Woman Wants 4 Men, Every Man Wants 2 Women" and his wife, Mrs B.
Coronavirus Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Rediscover the healing powers of love and empathy to help overcome fear during this pandemic.
7 Tips to Be a Successful Swinger
Watch along as Bella and Jase give you 7 of their top tips to be a successful swinger, especially for those just getting started in the swinging lifestyle!
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.
Openlove 101: Swinging Advice for Non-Swingers
If you don't have an open relationship, can it ever be open? And will it hurt or heighten your coupledom if you do open it? John and Jackie discuss swinging for non-swingers in this Openlove 101 video.
SDC Ibiza Behind the Scenes Vlog: 4OURPLAY
Bella and Jase take you behind the scenes with a vlog from a swinger lifestyle hotel takeover event they attended in Ibiza, Spain!
Swinging & Emotional Intimacy: Dos & Donts
Lauren Hayes on why self-awareness matters more than physical prowess, and how vulnerability builds the closeness couples are missing.
How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.
What Newbie Swingers Get Wrong and How to Avoid Common Pitfalls
Essential insights for beginners stepping into the swinging lifestyle.
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and Couples
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and CouplesWhat cuckolding is, why couples love it, and how to start as a cuck, bull, or curious couple.
By Nico Pierce, Content Media Manager at
Are You Ready for Cuckolding, or Just Loving the Fantasy?
Some of your hottest cuckolding fantasies may never become reality, and that’s perfectly fine. It’s healthy to fantasize about being in the role of cuckold or cuckoldress and let your fantasies live e