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Swinging & Group Erotica Course at Loveology University
We all know that knowledge equals power. So, sexual knowledge equals not only sexual power but sexual satisfaction.

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Why Pics Are Key
Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!

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Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!
Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle. 


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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.


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Living a Full Life With Herpes with Alexandra Harbushka
Wanting to live your life authentically and actually doing it is not something a lot of people execute. Sex and sexual health and wellness is still a subject that is still ripe with stigma for adults in the United States.

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Openlove 101: Swingers Lifestyle and the Subject of Consent
The subject of consent has been on everyone's minds lately. John and Jackie Melfi delve deep into the subject of consent in the lifestyle in this Openlove 101 video.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Sexting Texting Dating Advice
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Are You Textually Compatible?
You might be compatible between the sheets, but can you say the same when texting? With technology being a big part of modern dating, being textually compatible is a must!

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Holding Space with Dragonfly
"Holding space" means being emotionally, mentally, and physically present for someone, putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel and express their feelings.


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SDC Validations: Tips, How-Tos, and More!
Validations on SDC.com are SACRED! In this video, you'll learn why they're so important and how to use them in your lifestyle properly.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?


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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.


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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin? Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o