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Checkmate NYC to Re-Open with On-Site Rapid COVID-19 Testing
Swingers’ Club Checkmate NYC will be the first club in the world to re-open with on-site rapid COVID-19 testing.
What is a Swinger Unicorn?
In the sex clubs and swinger lifestyle, there are a ton of single swingers, not just couples. Learn why we call single women "unicorns" and why single men are referred to as "bulls."
SDC Affiliates Work Smarter, Not Harder by Earning Commission
SDC's Affiliate Program provides businesses the opportunity to earn generous and recurring commission. Here's how.
Our Radical Lifestyle Journey, Plus a Sweetheart Special!
Cupid sure struck this charming couple! Watch Hotwife Taylor & Gabriel Mann share their candid stories, and celebrate love with their generous Valentine's Day SeXXXperience offer for SDC readers.
Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?
Managing Jealousy in Open and Committed Relationships
Taylor Sparks explores how jealousy operates in both monogamous and ethically non-monogamous relationships, and how to handle it.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.
When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)
Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!
Openlove 101: Different Types of Open Relationships
There's more than one type of swinger and discovering what kind you are is an important step in the lifestyle journey.
Introducing Hotwife Taylor & Gabe Mann
Get to know the authors of memoir and lifestyle guide SeXXXperience in this exclusive video.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
What Newbie Swingers Get Wrong and How to Avoid Common Pitfalls
Essential insights for beginners stepping into the swinging lifestyle.
How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.
How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.
How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and Couples
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and CouplesWhat cuckolding is, why couples love it, and how to start as a cuck, bull, or curious couple.
By Nico Pierce, Content Media Manager at
Are You Ready for Cuckolding, or Just Loving the Fantasy?
Some of your hottest cuckolding fantasies may never become reality, and that’s perfectly fine. It’s healthy to fantasize about being in the role of cuckold or cuckoldress and let your fantasies live e