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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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How to Maximize the Simple Yet Powerful SDC Partner Dashboard
Curious about how SDC works to reach your preferred audience? Here's a behind-the-scenes glimpse into the tools available to our Partners.
Holding Space with Dragonfly
"Holding space" means being emotionally, mentally, and physically present for someone, putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel and express their feelings.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
What Really Happens at Swingers Clubs?
Watch along as Bella and Jase, hosts of the 4OURPLAY, go into detail about what really happens at swingers clubs!
How to Prepare for a Hotwifing Session
Husbands, help make the most of your hotwife experiences as a couple with these pro tips from Gabriel Mann.
Love Maps: Exploring Polyamory Part Two
Dr. Eli Sheff dives into the subjects of social criticism of sexual behaviors, designer relationships, the generational paradigm shift around monogamy and non-monogamy, and how polyamorous people are able to connect with their community.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.
Openlove 101: Swinging Advice for Non-Swingers
If you don't have an open relationship, can it ever be open? And will it hurt or heighten your coupledom if you do open it? John and Jackie discuss swinging for non-swingers in this Openlove 101 video.
Goal Manifestation Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Having a goal is one thing, but adding strong imagery to intentioned thoughts helps bring your desires to life.
How To: From Monogamous to Open Relationships
Open relationships are tempting, but sometimes hard to embark on when you're already in a loving monogamous relationship. Dr. Liz Powell tackles the sometimes difficult topics of moving from a closed relationship to an open one.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.
Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.
Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.
How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!
Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.
10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.
Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.
10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!
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