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SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Dating Pandemic Coronavirus
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Dating During COVID
What is the new normal during this pandemic, and what does it mean for those of us in the dating pool?

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Living a Full Life With Herpes with Alexandra Harbushka
Wanting to live your life authentically and actually doing it is not something a lot of people execute. Sex and sexual health and wellness is still a subject that is still ripe with stigma for adults in the United States.

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Video: Who We Are & Why We Created The Smart Erotica Program
Get to know relationship coaches Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro, the creators of the Smart Erotica Program and The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Black Women, Black Love: Interview with Dr. Dianne Stewart
Join Taylor on this episode of her Sisters of Sexuality Podcast for an in-depth discussion regarding Dr. Dianne Stewart's book, Black Women, Black Love: America's War on African American Marriage.


SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Love Coach Sex Game Advice Couples
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The Bedroom Game You Need to Try
Each new partner responds to different things in the bedroom. Find out what turns them on with this easy and erotic activity.

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Part I: Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up
This is the first in a new series that will offer you a practical blueprint for how to protect your relationship while you are spicing it up in the often-uncharted territory of the psycho-emotional-spiritual realm of erotic intimacy.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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How to Write a Good Bio in 5 Minutes (or Less)
Learn how to write a solid first draft bio in under five minutes following three simple guidelines.

SDC Hotwife Taylor Gabe Mann SeXXXperience Hotwifing Lifestyle Sexual Education
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Hotwife Taylor & Gabe's Hotwifing Journey
Lifestyle adventures evolve over time, just like any new exploration. Here's how Hotwife Taylor and her husband Gabe found their way toward making their fantasies a reality.


SDC SeXXXperience Book Gabriel Mann Hotwife Taylor Leigh Swingers Sex Work NonMonogamy
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Our Radical Lifestyle Journey, Plus a Sweetheart Special!
Cupid sure struck this charming couple! Watch Hotwife Taylor & Gabriel Mann share their candid stories, and celebrate love with their generous Valentine's Day SeXXXperience offer for SDC readers.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.


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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.

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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.

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How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!


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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.


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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.


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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.