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Watch the Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games Video Trailer
Are you ready to spark your Lexuality and bring some steamy, sexy, and scandalous reading into your life?

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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.

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Safe Play for Hotwives
So, you've found your guy. Now, follow these tips to make the most of your experience.


SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Online Dating Profile Advice
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Make the Most of Your Online Dating Profile
Modern dating is driven by making digital connections. Here are Erika's tips on how to create more effective online dating profiles.

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SDC Ibiza Review
Have you and your partner ever considered attending a swinger lifestyle hotel takeover?

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.

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Inside the Swinging Lifestyle: Q&A with That Other Lifestyle
How to navigate the swinging lifestyle, with a focus on consent, etiquette, community, and real-world dynamics beyond the bedroom.

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Managing Jealousy in Open and Committed Relationships
Taylor Sparks explores how jealousy operates in both monogamous and ethically non-monogamous relationships, and how to handle it.


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Video: The LIC Conversations #2: Unfiltered Communication
Honesty goes a long way in any dynamic, but it's a crucial element in developing a partnership based on Smart Erotica.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?


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How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.


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Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.

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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!

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Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.