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Black Women, Black Love: Interview with Dr. Dianne Stewart
Join Taylor on this episode of her Sisters of Sexuality Podcast for an in-depth discussion regarding Dr. Dianne Stewart's book, Black Women, Black Love: America's War on African American Marriage.

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How to Say No at a Sex Club Respectfully
There is no room for people-pleasing in the swinger and sex club lifestyle. Learn HOW to say no firmly and respectfully with these tips.

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The Resurrection Part 2
In this segment, we discuss Podfest, St Pete Lube Wrestling, Daddies and Littles, and other events.


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.


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Lying vs Withholding in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Lying vs Withholding in ENM: Not lying isn’t the same as being fully honest.

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How Do You Deal with Different Swinging Expectations?
What do you do when partners want to live the lifestyle differently?

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

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Openlove 101: Swinging as a Solution
What happens when one partner feels swinging is the only way he/she will stay in the relationship? And what if the other partner doesn't want that?

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Openlove 101: How We Deal with Discrimination in Our Swinger's Lifestyle
Entering into the swinger's lifestyle is a bold decision to make, and can sometimes be seen in a negative light. So, John and Jackie are here to tackle the issue of discrimination against swingers.


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Hotwifing Tip: Only Do What YOU Want to Do
It can be difficult for natural people-pleasers to be assertive and protect their boundaries, but it's especially important in consensual non-monogamy.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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How to Create an Amazing Swingers Dating Profile
The quiet power behind dating profiles in the swinging lifestyle.


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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin? Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o

Are You Ready for Swinging?
Are You Ready for Swinging?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure if you and your partner are really ready to dive into an open relationship? Opening your monogamous relationship to new experiences with other partne


Which Swinger Persona Are You?
Which Swinger Persona Are You?
In the swinging lifestyle, every couple or single brings their own irresistible energy. Some love to tease and play coy, others seduce with effortless confidence, while some are endlessly curious or f