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Openlove 101: Single Men at Swinger's Clubs (What Not To Do)
Single men in the lifestyle deal with a host of different issues when compared with single females and singles, and John and Jackie Melfi from Openlove 101 are here to offer some guidance.

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How Do You Deal with Different Swinging Expectations?
What do you do when partners want to live the lifestyle differently?

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SDC Features That Really Get You Noticed!
It’s time to LEVEL UP your SDC friend-making game!


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.


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How to Avoid Spiraling When Rejected
You WILL get rejected as a swinger, and that's OK! Here’s how to avoid spiraling.

SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Advice for Men Unsolicited Selfies
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Unsolicited Selfies
The new dating trend is for people to meet each other online then proceed to send daily selfies. NO... You are not defined by the symmetry in your face.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

SDC Dr Ava Cadell Self Love Mental Health Manifestation Meditation Guided Video Audio
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Alphabet Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
The benefit of this manifestation meditation is to cultivate your awareness and focus on what you really want in your life that will bring you love, peace and happiness.

SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Dating Pandemic Coronavirus
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Dating During COVID
What is the new normal during this pandemic, and what does it mean for those of us in the dating pool?


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Beginner Tips for Hotwifing Newbies
Here are some brief words of wisdom for hotwifing newbies

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!


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Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.

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How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.

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Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.


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Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.

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Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?