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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.
What is a Swinger Unicorn?
In the sex clubs and swinger lifestyle, there are a ton of single swingers, not just couples. Learn why we call single women "unicorns" and why single men are referred to as "bulls."
Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
Top 10 Things Nobody Told You About Herpes
No one wants HSV. But having it doesn’t mean you’ll automatically spread it. The risks can be heavily reduced with planning and prevention.
Coronavirus Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Rediscover the healing powers of love and empathy to help overcome fear during this pandemic.
Swinger Storytime: What's Your Worst Couple Encounter?
We invite you to spill the tea on your most annoying swinger story
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Embracing Aging Meditation
Aging is beautiful. Learn how to accept and love yourself and be mindful of your legacy.
Reparenting Yourself Meditation
Learn how to recognize the way you need to be loved so that you can have stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
Openlove 101: Different Types of Open Relationships
There's more than one type of swinger and discovering what kind you are is an important step in the lifestyle journey.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o