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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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The Resurrection Part 2
In this segment, we discuss Podfest, St Pete Lube Wrestling, Daddies and Littles, and other events.
When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)
Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!
Tantra Tips for Hotter, Deeper Sex
Have you always been curious about tantra but don't know where to start?
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
John C Luna's Sexual Wellness Therapy Part 2
Watch the second part of John's documentary about his experiences with hormone therapy.
What is a Session?
The modern world of relationship coaching might look a bit different than a traditional therapy session. Here's what to expect.
Video: The LIC Conversations #7: Routines & Rituals
How do you become conscious and intentional about your relationship? Watch this for ideas on how to show up what to do in your relationship to make it extraordinary.
Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle
Get the Electro-Sex FAQs with Claire from ElectraStim
Erotic electrostimulation can seem intimidating, but by the end of this Q&A, you just might find yourself adding a kinky new device in your pleasure product collection.
Openlove 101: How We Deal with Discrimination in Our Swinger's Lifestyle
Entering into the swinger's lifestyle is a bold decision to make, and can sometimes be seen in a negative light. So, John and Jackie are here to tackle the issue of discrimination against swingers.
Openlove 101: Swinging Advice for Non-Swingers
If you don't have an open relationship, can it ever be open? And will it hurt or heighten your coupledom if you do open it? John and Jackie discuss swinging for non-swingers in this Openlove 101 video.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.
Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?