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The Resurrection Part 1
We're back and have been busy! What have we been up to? Surgery, teaching classes, critters, a kink cruise, and much more.
5 Do's for a Great Time at a Swingers' Club
Going to a swingers' lifestyle club? Check this out first!
Sexycises with Dr. Ava Cadell and Erika Jordan
Working out is important for your health, but now you can even make it sexy! Here's how.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.
How To: From Monogamous to Open Relationships
Open relationships are tempting, but sometimes hard to embark on when you're already in a loving monogamous relationship. Dr. Liz Powell tackles the sometimes difficult topics of moving from a closed relationship to an open one.
Swinging 101: Virtual Dating Tips, Etiquette & More!
Learn how to create a sexy dating profile, the best ways to seduce swingers, what to do when swinging goes wrong, and more!
Our Radical Lifestyle Journey, Plus a Sweetheart Special!
Cupid sure struck this charming couple! Watch Hotwife Taylor & Gabriel Mann share their candid stories, and celebrate love with their generous Valentine's Day SeXXXperience offer for SDC readers.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.
Forgiveness of Self & Others Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Many of us are unnecessarily hard on ourselves or critical of those around us. Learn to find freedom from judgmental thoughts in this meditation.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!
How to Create an Amazing Swingers Dating Profile
The quiet power behind dating profiles in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o
Are You Ready for Swinging?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure if you and your partner are really ready to dive into an open relationship?
Opening your monogamous relationship to new experiences with other partne
Which Swinger Persona Are You?
In the swinging lifestyle, every couple or single brings their own irresistible energy. Some love to tease and play coy, others seduce with effortless confidence, while some are endlessly curious or f