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Do Women Want Threesomes with Other Women?
FMF threesomes are not just a fantasy for guys!

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Crown Your Clitoris with Jewels of Pleasure
For sexy holiday celebrations or for any occasion, offer her a clitoral jewel, a sexual jewel — a jewel of pleasure!

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The Myth of Monogamy & Navigating Open Relationships
How can we overcome misconceptions about non-monogamous dynamics?


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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.

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Part I: Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up
This is the first in a new series that will offer you a practical blueprint for how to protect your relationship while you are spicing it up in the often-uncharted territory of the psycho-emotional-spiritual realm of erotic intimacy.


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Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.

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How to Turn a Glove into a Dental Dam
Dental dams are an excellent barrier for practicing safer oral sex, and here's how to make one that has more flexibility.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle

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Hotwife Couple Talks About Their New Video Podcast
Here's one couple's experience of what it's like to start your own video podcast about their Swinging Lifestyle journey.

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How to Say No at a Sex Club Respectfully
There is no room for people-pleasing in the swinger and sex club lifestyle. Learn HOW to say no firmly and respectfully with these tips.


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Safe Play for Hotwives
So, you've found your guy. Now, follow these tips to make the most of your experience.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.


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Single Males Dos and Don'ts
Be the single guy everyone wants on the guest list.

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Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.


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10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.

Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!  Before you get started, here are