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Video: The LIC Conversations #5 & #6: Boundaries & Agreements
Knowing and respecting each other's limits keeps your relationship protected — an integral facet to have in place, especially as you begin sharing it with others.

SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Dating Pandemic Coronavirus
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Dating During COVID
What is the new normal during this pandemic, and what does it mean for those of us in the dating pool?

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Video: The LIC Conversations #1: Alignment
As with any successful relationship, it's important that you're on the same page.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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Introducing Hotwife Taylor & Gabe Mann
Get to know the authors of memoir and lifestyle guide SeXXXperience in this exclusive video.


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Sexycises with Dr. Ava Cadell and Erika Jordan
Working out is important for your health, but now you can even make it sexy! Here's how.

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Hotwife Couple Talks About Their New Video Podcast
Here's one couple's experience of what it's like to start your own video podcast about their Swinging Lifestyle journey.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.

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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

SDC Checkmate Swingers Lifestyle Club NYC Coronavirus COVID19 Cleanliness Sanitation Measures
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Checkmate NYC to Re-Open with On-Site Rapid COVID-19 Testing
Swingers’ Club Checkmate NYC will be the first club in the world to re-open with on-site rapid COVID-19 testing.


SDC Dr Ava Cadell Guided Meditation Creating Balance Mental Physical Sexual Health
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Creating Balance Meditation
Modern life can have us feeling pulled in many directions at once. Humans crave equilibrium, and this guided meditation can help you find it.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?


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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.

SDC Lexi Sylver Podcast Sex Education Sexuality NonMonogamy Open Relationships Dr Laurie Betito
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The Swinging Lifestyle & Types of Open Relationships
Listen for Lexi Sylver's guest appearance on Dr. Laurie Betito's radio show on CJAD 8000.

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Navigating Sex Clubs: Tips, Etiquette, and Experiences
Jason and his wife share their latest adventure at a new sex club, providing you with an inside look at their experience, valuable tips, and essential etiquette to ensure you have a great night out.


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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?


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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?


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Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.

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How Can Single Men Meet Swinger Couples?
9 tips for single guys in the lifestyle to connect with swinger couples.

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.


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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin? Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o