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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Love Maps: Exploring Polyamory Part Two
Dr. Eli Sheff dives into the subjects of social criticism of sexual behaviors, designer relationships, the generational paradigm shift around monogamy and non-monogamy, and how polyamorous people are able to connect with their community.
What Would You Do if You Had One Day Left?
When working toward living your best, most authentic life, ask yourself this powerful question to stay in touch with what's most important to you.
SDC Validations: Tips, How-Tos, and More!
Validations on SDC.com are SACRED! In this video, you'll learn why they're so important and how to use them in your lifestyle properly.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.
Swinger Storytime: What's Your Worst Couple Encounter?
We invite you to spill the tea on your most annoying swinger story
How to Avoid Spiraling When Rejected
You WILL get rejected as a swinger, and that's OK! Here’s how to avoid spiraling.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
Communication During COVID: Choosing Our Words Carefully
A discussion on language and word choice to enhance communication
Managing Jealousy in Open and Committed Relationships
Taylor Sparks explores how jealousy operates in both monogamous and ethically non-monogamous relationships, and how to handle it.
Goal Manifestation Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Having a goal is one thing, but adding strong imagery to intentioned thoughts helps bring your desires to life.
10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.
10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!
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