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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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7 Tips to Be a Successful Swinger
Watch along as Bella and Jase give you 7 of their top tips to be a successful swinger, especially for those just getting started in the swinging lifestyle!
What Really Happens at Swingers Clubs?
Watch along as Bella and Jase, hosts of the 4OURPLAY, go into detail about what really happens at swingers clubs!
Openlove 101: Our Open Lifestyle and Passion for Traveling
Love to travel and swing? Well, the lifestyle might just be the perfect choice for you and your partner(s).
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
The Resurrection Part 3
In this segment, we discuss Tantra! What it is, what it's not, and why this pleasure-based therapy has done wonders for our lives.
Openlove 101: Swinging Advice for Non-Swingers
If you don't have an open relationship, can it ever be open? And will it hurt or heighten your coupledom if you do open it? John and Jackie discuss swinging for non-swingers in this Openlove 101 video.
How to Introduce Your Partner to The Swinging Lifestyle
Watch along as Bella and Jase, hosts of 4OURPLAY, talk about tips on how to introduce your partner to the swinging lifestyle!
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
Get Confident!
One surefire way to attract women is to present yourself authentically and comfortably. Learn how to boost your confidence with these tips by Certified Love Coach Erika Jordan.
Are You Textually Compatible?
You might be compatible between the sheets, but can you say the same when texting? With technology being a big part of modern dating, being textually compatible is a must!
Video: Who We Are & Why We Created The Smart Erotica Program
Get to know relationship coaches Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro, the creators of the Smart Erotica Program and The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
The Swinging Lifestyle & Types of Open Relationships
Listen for Lexi Sylver's guest appearance on Dr. Laurie Betito's radio show on CJAD 8000.
Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?
Navigating Sex Clubs: Tips, Etiquette, and Experiences
Jason and his wife share their latest adventure at a new sex club, providing you with an inside look at their experience, valuable tips, and essential etiquette to ensure you have a great night out.
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.
How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?
How Can Single Men Meet Swinger Couples?
9 tips for single guys in the lifestyle to connect with swinger couples.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o