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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Holding Space with Dragonfly
"Holding space" means being emotionally, mentally, and physically present for someone, putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel and express their feelings.
Openlove 101 World Love Summit Series: An interview with SDC's George Jones
In this exclusive World Love Summit video, John and Jackie Melfi of Openlove 101 interviewed SDC's George Jones and discussed his philosophy about what the swinger lifestyle actually is.
Our Radical Lifestyle Journey, Plus a Sweetheart Special!
Cupid sure struck this charming couple! Watch Hotwife Taylor & Gabriel Mann share their candid stories, and celebrate love with their generous Valentine's Day SeXXXperience offer for SDC readers.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
How to Introduce Your Partner to The Swinging Lifestyle
Watch along as Bella and Jase, hosts of 4OURPLAY, talk about tips on how to introduce your partner to the swinging lifestyle!
What is Erotic Electrostimulation, aka Electro-Sex & E-Stim?
Learn about electrosex from Marketing Manager Claire and Sales Manager Sophie from ElectraStim, the company that has been making e-stim devices for over 18 years.
The Healing Smile: Taoist Tantra Guided Meditation
We can all benefit from the soothing power of healing ourselves, and Kayteezee is here to guide us into our bodies.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Consensual Non-Monogamy: Is it Right for You?
If you're curious about opening your relationship, watch Kitty Chambliss' video for her helpful questions to ask yourself and your partner.
Become an SDC Partner!
Sex educators, pleasure product brands, swingers clubs — no matter where you are within the adult education and entertainment industries, SDC has the tools you need to grow your reach and engagement!
How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o