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Want Longer-Lasting, Mind-Blowing Sex? Try Tenuto!
The ultimate couples vibrator that will blow both your minds: meet Tenuto!
Bend Over Backwards for Pleasure: From Crescendo to Climax
Read a couple’s personal sexperience playing with MysteryVibe’s Crescendo sex toy, designed to bring the best of health, pleasure, and technology together.
Holding Space with Dragonfly
"Holding space" means being emotionally, mentally, and physically present for someone, putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel and express their feelings.
How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!
Florida Center for Hormones & Wellness
What is hormone therapy, and what are some of the available treatments?
BlkTouch's Brian Dwayne on Black Erotica
Showcasing the beauty and sensuality of Black people in both an exotic and erotic medium, both in still and movement on film, is greatly accomplished by Brian Dwayne, founder of BlkTouch.
When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)
Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.
6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.
Become an SDC Partner!
Sex educators, pleasure product brands, swingers clubs — no matter where you are within the adult education and entertainment industries, SDC has the tools you need to grow your reach and engagement!
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.
Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.
Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.