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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Openlove 101: Different Types of Open Relationships
There's more than one type of swinger and discovering what kind you are is an important step in the lifestyle journey.
Bend Over Backwards for Pleasure: From Crescendo to Climax
Read a couple’s personal sexperience playing with MysteryVibe’s Crescendo sex toy, designed to bring the best of health, pleasure, and technology together.
Consensual Non-Monogamy: Is it Right for You?
If you're curious about opening your relationship, watch Kitty Chambliss' video for her helpful questions to ask yourself and your partner.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
What is a Swinger Unicorn?
In the sex clubs and swinger lifestyle, there are a ton of single swingers, not just couples. Learn why we call single women "unicorns" and why single men are referred to as "bulls."
Sexycises with Dr. Ava Cadell and Erika Jordan
Working out is important for your health, but now you can even make it sexy! Here's how.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.
How to Prepare for a Hotwifing Session
Husbands, help make the most of your hotwife experiences as a couple with these pro tips from Gabriel Mann.
How to Introduce Your Partner to The Swinging Lifestyle
Watch along as Bella and Jase, hosts of 4OURPLAY, talk about tips on how to introduce your partner to the swinging lifestyle!
Embracing Aging Meditation
Aging is beautiful. Learn how to accept and love yourself and be mindful of your legacy.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!
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