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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Openlove 101
Openlove 101: Misconceptions of a Swingers Club
Never set foot in a swingers club? What do YOU think goes on behind the velvet rope? Find out with Openlove 101...
SDC Exclusive: Fetish Con 2019
If you've ever wondered what it's like at a kink convention, walk the floor at FetCon with John and Angelique Luna in this exclusive video.
The Intersection of Exhibitionism and Anxiety
Can a self-described anxious poodle thrive as a club exhibitionist? Adam and Pris reveal how anxiety and showing off can share the same stage.
Soul-Mates For Life Testimonials
Don't take our word for it! Hear from real couples about how our program has helped their relationships.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.
Reparenting Yourself Meditation
Learn how to recognize the way you need to be loved so that you can have stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
5 Tips For The Best Time at The Swingers Club: Part 1
Watch along as Bella and Jase, hosts of 4OURPLAY, talk about 5 tips on how to have the best time at the swinger lifestyle club!
All About Breasts: Pleasure and Health
Eve Hall unpacks breast anatomy, hormonal tenderness, density and screening, plus why pleasure belongs in every breast health conversation.
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.
What Newbie Swingers Get Wrong and How to Avoid Common Pitfalls
Essential insights for beginners stepping into the swinging lifestyle.
How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.
Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and Couples
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and CouplesWhat cuckolding is, why couples love it, and how to start as a cuck, bull, or curious couple.
By Nico Pierce, Content Media Manager at
Are You Ready for Cuckolding, or Just Loving the Fantasy?
Some of your hottest cuckolding fantasies may never become reality, and that’s perfectly fine. It’s healthy to fantasize about being in the role of cuckold or cuckoldress and let your fantasies live e