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Hotwifing Tip: Have a Safety Plan
Put your minds at ease by building your own protection strategy with inspiration by Hotwife Taylor and Gabe Mann.
Video: Who We Are & Why We Created The Smart Erotica Program
Get to know relationship coaches Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro, the creators of the Smart Erotica Program and The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.
Dating During COVID
What is the new normal during this pandemic, and what does it mean for those of us in the dating pool?
Standing on the Edge: When You’re Not Sure About ENM
Are you standing on the edge of something unfamiliar — like ethical non-monogamy — while your partner is ready to leap?
Men's Guide to Sending the Best Nudes
You did it! You found someone who ASKS for a pic of your package. Make the best first impression with these sexpert tips!
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!
Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle.
Tantra Tips for Hotter, Deeper Sex
Have you always been curious about tantra but don't know where to start?
What are the Dos & Don'ts of Sex Club Etiquette?
Whether you're curious about clubs or are a seasoned pro, these sex club tips are for you.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!
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