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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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How to Rise Above a Challenge
We are watching history being made. How will we choose to show up to such events in our lives? From a place of Courage or Fear?
Love Maps: Exploring Polyamory Part Two
Dr. Eli Sheff dives into the subjects of social criticism of sexual behaviors, designer relationships, the generational paradigm shift around monogamy and non-monogamy, and how polyamorous people are able to connect with their community.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.
Alphabet Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
The benefit of this manifestation meditation is to cultivate your awareness and focus on what you really want in your life that will bring you love, peace and happiness.
Sexycises with Dr. Ava Cadell and Erika Jordan
Working out is important for your health, but now you can even make it sexy! Here's how.
Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!
Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?
Are You Textually Compatible?
You might be compatible between the sheets, but can you say the same when texting? With technology being a big part of modern dating, being textually compatible is a must!
How To: From Monogamous to Open Relationships
Open relationships are tempting, but sometimes hard to embark on when you're already in a loving monogamous relationship. Dr. Liz Powell tackles the sometimes difficult topics of moving from a closed relationship to an open one.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
How to Create an Amazing Swingers Dating Profile
The quiet power behind dating profiles in the swinging lifestyle.
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle
How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o
Are You Ready for Swinging?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure if you and your partner are really ready to dive into an open relationship?
Opening your monogamous relationship to new experiences with other partne
Which Swinger Persona Are You?
In the swinging lifestyle, every couple or single brings their own irresistible energy. Some love to tease and play coy, others seduce with effortless confidence, while some are endlessly curious or f