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Video: The LIC Conversations #5 & #6: Boundaries & Agreements
Knowing and respecting each other's limits keeps your relationship protected — an integral facet to have in place, especially as you begin sharing it with others.

SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Mental Health Relationships
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Holding Space with Dragonfly
"Holding space" means being emotionally, mentally, and physically present for someone, putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel and express their feelings.

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Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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Single Males Dos and Don'ts
Be the single guy everyone wants on the guest list.

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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC
What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?


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Everyone Feels Jealousy
Regardless of whether or not you are non-monogamous, jealousy is a natural human emotion.

SDC Openlove 101 John Jackie Swingers Lifestyle Convention Naughty in Nawlins 2019
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Swinger Convention Naughty in N'awlins Recap 2019
Lifestyle events are always a great time, but this year's NiN was the best!

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.

SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Advice for Men Unsolicited Selfies
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Unsolicited Selfies
The new dating trend is for people to meet each other online then proceed to send daily selfies. NO... You are not defined by the symmetry in your face.

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SDC Validations: Tips, How-Tos, and More!
Validations on SDC.com are SACRED! In this video, you'll learn why they're so important and how to use them in your lifestyle properly.


SDC Dr Ava Cadell Self Love Mental Health Manifestation Meditation Guided Video Audio
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Alphabet Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
The benefit of this manifestation meditation is to cultivate your awareness and focus on what you really want in your life that will bring you love, peace and happiness.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.


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Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics

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How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.

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How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle


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10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.

Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!  Before you get started, here are