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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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What is a Session?
The modern world of relationship coaching might look a bit different than a traditional therapy session. Here's what to expect.
The Resurrection Part 3
In this segment, we discuss Tantra! What it is, what it's not, and why this pleasure-based therapy has done wonders for our lives.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
Video: The LIC Conversations #4: Sexuality vs. Eroticism
There’s a difference between sex and eroticism, and it will make or break you.
Hotwife Taylor & Gabe's Hotwifing Journey
Lifestyle adventures evolve over time, just like any new exploration. Here's how Hotwife Taylor and her husband Gabe found their way toward making their fantasies a reality.
Open Relationships & Playing with Couples
You know what they say, "The only thing constant is change."
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
What are the Dos & Don'ts of Sex Club Etiquette?
Whether you're curious about clubs or are a seasoned pro, these sex club tips are for you.
Swinger Storytime: What's Your Worst Couple Encounter?
We invite you to spill the tea on your most annoying swinger story
Living a Full Life With Herpes with Alexandra Harbushka
Wanting to live your life authentically and actually doing it is not something a lot of people execute. Sex and sexual health and wellness is still a subject that is still ripe with stigma for adults in the United States.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?
The Swinging Lifestyle & Types of Open Relationships
Listen for Lexi Sylver's guest appearance on Dr. Laurie Betito's radio show on CJAD 8000.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
How Can Single Men Meet Swinger Couples?
9 tips for single guys in the lifestyle to connect with swinger couples.
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
Navigating Sex Clubs: Tips, Etiquette, and Experiences
Jason and his wife share their latest adventure at a new sex club, providing you with an inside look at their experience, valuable tips, and essential etiquette to ensure you have a great night out.
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o