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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Rules, Boundaries, and Agreements — What’s the Difference?
Many well-intentioned people get confused about the difference between Rules, Boundaries, and Agreements, causing unwanted conflict. Let’s clear that fog away together!
Openlove 101: Single Men at Swinger's Clubs (What Not To Do)
Single men in the lifestyle deal with a host of different issues when compared with single females and singles, and John and Jackie Melfi from Openlove 101 are here to offer some guidance.
Tantra Tips for Hotter, Deeper Sex
Have you always been curious about tantra but don't know where to start?
Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.
What Does Consent Really Mean?
Consent can be a fickle thing, which is why Dr. Liz Powell sat down to tackle the subject.
How To: From Monogamous to Open Relationships
Open relationships are tempting, but sometimes hard to embark on when you're already in a loving monogamous relationship. Dr. Liz Powell tackles the sometimes difficult topics of moving from a closed relationship to an open one.
Holding Space with Dragonfly
"Holding space" means being emotionally, mentally, and physically present for someone, putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel and express their feelings.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!
Reparenting Yourself Meditation
Learn how to recognize the way you need to be loved so that you can have stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 4
Relationship Hierarchy: In monogamous relationships, the romantic partner often holds the highest priority in terms of emotional and time investment.
Living a Full Life With Herpes with Alexandra Harbushka
Wanting to live your life authentically and actually doing it is not something a lot of people execute. Sex and sexual health and wellness is still a subject that is still ripe with stigma for adults in the United States.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.
10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.
Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.
Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.
Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.
Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.
How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!
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