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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Swinging & Group Erotica Course at Loveology University
We all know that knowledge equals power. So, sexual knowledge equals not only sexual power but sexual satisfaction.
Explaining Non-Monogamy to Monogamous People
Not everyone can wrap their heads around the concept of non-monogamy, but we can certainly try to help explain it!
Crown Your Clitoris with Jewels of Pleasure
For sexy holiday celebrations or for any occasion, offer her a clitoral jewel, a sexual jewel — a jewel of pleasure!
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?
Openlove 101: Swingers Lifestyle and the Subject of Consent
The subject of consent has been on everyone's minds lately. John and Jackie Melfi delve deep into the subject of consent in the lifestyle in this Openlove 101 video.
Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
WATCH: List Your Erotic Rental on SDC's New BNB Service
Do you have a sexy BNB? Watch this video to learn how to reach SDC's community and book lifestyle guests today!
Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?
BlkTouch's Brian Dwayne on Black Erotica
Showcasing the beauty and sensuality of Black people in both an exotic and erotic medium, both in still and movement on film, is greatly accomplished by Brian Dwayne, founder of BlkTouch.
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
Navigating Sex Clubs: Tips, Etiquette, and Experiences
Jason and his wife share their latest adventure at a new sex club, providing you with an inside look at their experience, valuable tips, and essential etiquette to ensure you have a great night out.
The Swinging Lifestyle & Types of Open Relationships
Listen for Lexi Sylver's guest appearance on Dr. Laurie Betito's radio show on CJAD 8000.
Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.
How Can Single Men Meet Swinger Couples?
9 tips for single guys in the lifestyle to connect with swinger couples.