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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Spit Is NOT Lube! Here’s What to Use Instead + Why It Matters
It dries fast, has zero glide, and the bacteria in the mouth can disrupt the vaginal ecosystem — increasing the risk of BV.
Mastering Your Modern Dating Game (Part 2)
Join Victoria for Part 2 of Mastering Your Modern Dating Game — practical tools to date with confidence and clarity.
Make the Most of Your Online Dating Profile
Modern dating is driven by making digital connections. Here are Erika's tips on how to create more effective online dating profiles.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Handle Rejection in the Swinging Lifestyle
Because it happens to everyone, and how you respond says a lot about your reputation.
Skills that Attract Women
One surefire way to boost your confidence and quality of life is to improve or learn a variety of skills, but which ones are more likely to impress women?
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
The Best Swingers Clubs & Venues in Orlando, Florida
Everything you need to know about Central Florida's best swingers venues, indoors and outdoors.
Stories From my First Lifestyle Cruise
Swinging lifestyle coach Lauren Hayes shares what she learned aboard her first lifestyle cruise and how it compares to resorts.
Video: Who We Are & Why We Created The Smart Erotica Program
Get to know relationship coaches Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro, the creators of the Smart Erotica Program and The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up.
Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.
How to Create an Amazing Swingers Dating Profile
The quiet power behind dating profiles in the swinging lifestyle.
Swingers Clubs in South Florida: From Miami to West Palm
Where the forecast always calls for a very seductive weekend.
How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!
Everyone Feels Jealousy
Regardless of whether or not you are non-monogamous, jealousy is a natural human emotion.
Nudist, Swinger, or Both?!
Marco and Angel Ranee unpack nudism, swinging, and what it is really like to live full time in a clothing-optional lifestyle community.
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
6 Good Reasons to Open Your Relationship
More and more couples admit to being tempted to open their relationship. Given that you're reading this, you might be, too.
How to Find Fit Swinger Couples
The right couple doesn't just check boxes; they match your energy, your lifestyle, and your standards.