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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Dating During COVID
What is the new normal during this pandemic, and what does it mean for those of us in the dating pool?
Living a Full Life With Herpes with Alexandra Harbushka
Wanting to live your life authentically and actually doing it is not something a lot of people execute. Sex and sexual health and wellness is still a subject that is still ripe with stigma for adults in the United States.
Video: Who We Are & Why We Created The Smart Erotica Program
Get to know relationship coaches Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro, the creators of the Smart Erotica Program and The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up.
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
Black Women, Black Love: Interview with Dr. Dianne Stewart
Join Taylor on this episode of her Sisters of Sexuality Podcast for an in-depth discussion regarding Dr. Dianne Stewart's book, Black Women, Black Love: America's War on African American Marriage.
The Bedroom Game You Need to Try
Each new partner responds to different things in the bedroom. Find out what turns them on with this easy and erotic activity.
Part I: Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up
This is the first in a new series that will offer you a practical blueprint for how to protect your relationship while you are spicing it up in the often-uncharted territory of the psycho-emotional-spiritual realm of erotic intimacy.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Write a Good Bio in 5 Minutes (or Less)
Learn how to write a solid first draft bio in under five minutes following three simple guidelines.
Hotwife Taylor & Gabe's Hotwifing Journey
Lifestyle adventures evolve over time, just like any new exploration. Here's how Hotwife Taylor and her husband Gabe found their way toward making their fantasies a reality.
Our Radical Lifestyle Journey, Plus a Sweetheart Special!
Cupid sure struck this charming couple! Watch Hotwife Taylor & Gabriel Mann share their candid stories, and celebrate love with their generous Valentine's Day SeXXXperience offer for SDC readers.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.
How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.