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SDC Kitty Chambliss Loving Without Boundaries Rise Above Challenges Courage Fear Coaching Mental Hea
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How to Rise Above a Challenge
We are watching history being made. How will we choose to show up to such events in our lives? From a place of Courage or Fear?

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How to Maximize the Simple Yet Powerful SDC Partner Dashboard
Curious about how SDC works to reach your preferred audience? Here's a behind-the-scenes glimpse into the tools available to our Partners.

SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Dating Pandemic Coronavirus
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Dating During COVID
What is the new normal during this pandemic, and what does it mean for those of us in the dating pool?


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.

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How to Turn a Glove into a Dental Dam
Dental dams are an excellent barrier for practicing safer oral sex, and here's how to make one that has more flexibility.


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Video: The LIC Conversations #3: Conflicts
Problems arise in every relationship, but one based on Smart Erotica deals with it in a healthy, productive way.

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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.

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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.

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Swinging Newbie Guide: 4OURPLAY
Watch along as Bella and Jase share some of their best tips for people getting started in the swinging lifestyle!


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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?


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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.

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Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?


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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!

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How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.

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Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.