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Part I: Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up
This is the first in a new series that will offer you a practical blueprint for how to protect your relationship while you are spicing it up in the often-uncharted territory of the psycho-emotional-spiritual realm of erotic intimacy.
Swinger Convention Naughty in N'awlins Recap 2019
Lifestyle events are always a great time, but this year's NiN was the best!
Which is More Intimate: Sleeping Together OR Oral Sex?
In this Ask a Sex Goddess video, Taylor discusses the nuances of intimacy and sex.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
The Consent We Give Our Partner
Permission is an essential discussion between any couple, but it becomes even more crucial when you're open.
Everyone Feels Jealousy
Regardless of whether or not you are non-monogamous, jealousy is a natural human emotion.
Top 10 Things Nobody Told You About Herpes
No one wants HSV. But having it doesn’t mean you’ll automatically spread it. The risks can be heavily reduced with planning and prevention.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.
The Bedroom Game You Need to Try
Each new partner responds to different things in the bedroom. Find out what turns them on with this easy and erotic activity.
What Really Happens at Swingers Clubs?
Watch along as Bella and Jase, hosts of the 4OURPLAY, go into detail about what really happens at swingers clubs!
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle
Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
