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When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)
Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!
Coronavirus Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Rediscover the healing powers of love and empathy to help overcome fear during this pandemic.
Everyone Feels Jealousy
Regardless of whether or not you are non-monogamous, jealousy is a natural human emotion.
Why Ex-Mormons Seek Out Sex Coaching
Sex and Substance are the first things Ex-Mormons experiment with after leaving the Church — and they do so with existential panic and flare.
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
Forgiveness of Self & Others Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Many of us are unnecessarily hard on ourselves or critical of those around us. Learn to find freedom from judgmental thoughts in this meditation.
The Myth of Monogamy & Navigating Open Relationships
How can we overcome misconceptions about non-monogamous dynamics?
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Tired of Getting 'Hi' and 'Hey' In Your DMs? Try This!
Follow these three quick tips to ensure your profile is inviting quality DMs!
Communication During COVID: Choosing Our Words Carefully
A discussion on language and word choice to enhance communication
6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 6
Emotional Monogamy: Emotional exclusivity is a common characteristic of monogamous relationships, where partners often seek emotional fulfillment exclusively from each other.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.
How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!
How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.
Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.
Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.
Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.
Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.