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What is a Swinger Unicorn?
In the sex clubs and swinger lifestyle, there are a ton of single swingers, not just couples. Learn why we call single women "unicorns" and why single men are referred to as "bulls."

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SDC Affiliates Work Smarter, Not Harder by Earning Commission
SDC's Affiliate Program provides businesses the opportunity to earn generous and recurring commission. Here's how.

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The Healing Smile: Taoist Tantra Guided Meditation
We can all benefit from the soothing power of healing ourselves, and Kayteezee is here to guide us into our bodies.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!

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Video: The LIC Conversations #3: Conflicts
Problems arise in every relationship, but one based on Smart Erotica deals with it in a healthy, productive way.


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SDC Ibiza Day In The Life Vlog: 4OURPLAY
Bella and Jase take you behind the scenes of what a typical day is like on a swinger vacation.

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Do Women Want Threesomes with Other Women?
FMF threesomes are not just a fantasy for guys!

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

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Hotwifing Tip: Have a Safety Plan
Put your minds at ease by building your own protection strategy with inspiration by Hotwife Taylor and Gabe Mann.

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Swinging Newbie Guide: 4OURPLAY
Watch along as Bella and Jase share some of their best tips for people getting started in the swinging lifestyle!


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Inside the Swinging Lifestyle: Q&A with That Other Lifestyle
How to navigate the swinging lifestyle, with a focus on consent, etiquette, community, and real-world dynamics beyond the bedroom.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?


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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.


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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.


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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle

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How to Create an Amazing Swingers Dating Profile
The quiet power behind dating profiles in the swinging lifestyle.


Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin? Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o

Are You Ready for Swinging?
Are You Ready for Swinging?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure if you and your partner are really ready to dive into an open relationship? Opening your monogamous relationship to new experiences with other partne