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How to Turn a Glove into a Dental Dam
Dental dams are an excellent barrier for practicing safer oral sex, and here's how to make one that has more flexibility.

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Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!
Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle. 

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Holding Space with Dragonfly
"Holding space" means being emotionally, mentally, and physically present for someone, putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel and express their feelings.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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Soul-Mates For Life
We believe that soul mates are created, not found


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When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)
Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!

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Do Women Want Threesomes with Other Women?
FMF threesomes are not just a fantasy for guys!

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!

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Video: The LIC Conversations #7: Routines & Rituals
How do you become conscious and intentional about your relationship? Watch this for ideas on how to show up what to do in your relationship to make it extraordinary.

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Video: Who We Are & Why We Created The Smart Erotica Program
Get to know relationship coaches Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro, the creators of the Smart Erotica Program and The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up.


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Become an SDC Partner!
Sex educators, pleasure product brands, swingers clubs — no matter where you are within the adult education and entertainment industries, SDC has the tools you need to grow your reach and engagement!

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.


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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle


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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?


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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.

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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.


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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.