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SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Confidence Coaching
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Get Confident!
One surefire way to attract women is to present yourself authentically and comfortably. Learn how to boost your confidence with these tips by Certified Love Coach Erika Jordan.

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Openlove 101: Misconceptions of a Swingers Club
Never set foot in a swingers club? What do YOU think goes on behind the velvet rope? Find out with Openlove 101...

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How (and Why) to Send Friend Requests on SDC
What’s the point in having "friends" on SDC?


Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

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Video: The LIC Conversations #5 & #6: Boundaries & Agreements
Knowing and respecting each other's limits keeps your relationship protected — an integral facet to have in place, especially as you begin sharing it with others.


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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 1
Learn the relationship foundations and dynamics to leave behind with monogamy if you're considering ethical non-monogamy.

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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

SDC Sex Positive Me John C Luna Florida Center for Hormones and Wellness Therapy
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John C Luna's Sexual Wellness Therapy Part 2
Watch the second part of John's documentary about his experiences with hormone therapy.

SDC Dr Jay and Liseth Soul Mates for Life Couples Relationship Therapy Open
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Soul-Mates For Life
We believe that soul mates are created, not found


SDC Dr Ava Cadell Mental Health Manifestation Meditation Guided Video Audio Coronavirus
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Coronavirus Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Rediscover the healing powers of love and empathy to help overcome fear during this pandemic.

SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.


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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?


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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.


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How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!

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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle

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How to Create an Amazing Swingers Dating Profile
The quiet power behind dating profiles in the swinging lifestyle.


Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin? Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o

Are You Ready for Swinging?
Are You Ready for Swinging?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure if you and your partner are really ready to dive into an open relationship? Opening your monogamous relationship to new experiences with other partne

Which Swinger Persona Are You?
Which Swinger Persona Are You?
In the swinging lifestyle, every couple or single brings their own irresistible energy. Some love to tease and play coy, others seduce with effortless confidence, while some are endlessly curious or f