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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.
Video: The LIC Conversations #1: Alignment
As with any successful relationship, it's important that you're on the same page.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
Video: The LIC Conversations #7: Routines & Rituals
How do you become conscious and intentional about your relationship? Watch this for ideas on how to show up what to do in your relationship to make it extraordinary.
5 Tips For The Best Time at The Swingers Club: Part 1
Watch along as Bella and Jase, hosts of 4OURPLAY, talk about 5 tips on how to have the best time at the swinger lifestyle club!
What is a Swinger Unicorn?
In the sex clubs and swinger lifestyle, there are a ton of single swingers, not just couples. Learn why we call single women "unicorns" and why single men are referred to as "bulls."
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
Openlove 101: Single Men at Swinger's Clubs (What Not To Do)
Single men in the lifestyle deal with a host of different issues when compared with single females and singles, and John and Jackie Melfi from Openlove 101 are here to offer some guidance.
Openlove 101: Swingers Lifestyle and the Subject of Consent
The subject of consent has been on everyone's minds lately. John and Jackie Melfi delve deep into the subject of consent in the lifestyle in this Openlove 101 video.
Openlove 101: Our Open Lifestyle and Passion for Traveling
Love to travel and swing? Well, the lifestyle might just be the perfect choice for you and your partner(s).
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o