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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
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Inside the Swinging Lifestyle: Q&A with That Other Lifestyle
How to navigate the swinging lifestyle, with a focus on consent, etiquette, community, and real-world dynamics beyond the bedroom.

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Top 10 Things Nobody Told You About Herpes
No one wants HSV. But having it doesn’t mean you’ll automatically spread it. The risks can be heavily reduced with planning and prevention.

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SDC Validations: Tips, How-Tos, and More!
Validations on SDC.com are SACRED! In this video, you'll learn why they're so important and how to use them in your lifestyle properly.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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The Swinging Lifestyle & Types of Open Relationships
Listen for Lexi Sylver's guest appearance on Dr. Laurie Betito's radio show on CJAD 8000.

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Tired of Getting 'Hi' and 'Hey' In Your DMs? Try This!
Follow these three quick tips to ensure your profile is inviting quality DMs!


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Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!
Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle. 

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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How Can Single Men Meet Swinger Couples?
9 tips for single guys in the lifestyle to connect with swinger couples.

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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.

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How to Avoid Spiraling When Rejected
You WILL get rejected as a swinger, and that's OK! Here’s how to avoid spiraling.


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When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)
Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?