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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
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Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes!
Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy share how they navigate group play, from MFM favorites to orgies where getting naked never means you owe anyone.

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Awkward Moments and How We Survived Them
Carnelian and Saphyre of Frisky Neighbors share their funniest lifestyle mishaps, from missed afterparties to curious pets, and how laughter kept them going.

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Setting Boundaries, Not Borders
Discover why speaking up the first time matters and how saying no can strengthen your relationship without building walls around it.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.

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What We Didn’t Know About The Lifestyle
Frisky Neighbors Saphyre and Carnelian share the surprises of their early lifestyle days, from endless costume themes to learning swinging isn't polyamory.


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The Intersection of Swinging & Polyamory
Adam & Pris of Beyond Monogamy open up about their journey from swinging to polyamory and why speaking up matters more than keeping the peace.

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What If You’re Not Into Them?
Sitting at dinner and feeling no spark? Lauren Hayes of SwingingCoach shares how to say no with kindness and confidence, and why expectation kills desire.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?

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The Intersection of Exhibitionism and Anxiety
Can a self-described anxious poodle thrive as a club exhibitionist? Adam and Pris reveal how anxiety and showing off can share the same stage.

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Stop Throwing Away Good Marriages Over Sex
Taylor breaks down the real truth behind sexless marriages, mismatched desire, and why Ethical Non-Monogamy often saves relationships that would otherwise be destroyed over something solvable.


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Why Some Couples Get All the Attention
Coach Lauren Hayes unpacks what really draws people in at clubs and takeovers, and the simple mindset shifts that turn "clique" anxiety into easy connection.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How Swinging Can Improve Your Marriage
Can an open relationship boost your marriage? Read on!