Open
Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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The Intersection of Swinging & Polyamory
Adam & Pris of Beyond Monogamy open up about their journey from swinging to polyamory and why speaking up matters more than keeping the peace.
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Awkward Moments and How We Survived Them
Carnelian and Saphyre of Frisky Neighbors share their funniest lifestyle mishaps, from missed afterparties to curious pets, and how laughter kept them going.
Just Sex Talk EP 115 | Risque Lifestyle Parties
Heath and Renee from Risque Lifestyle Parties join the show and share their experiences in the lifestyle
Is Polyamory or Swinging Just Cheating With Extra Steps?
Cheating is defined by what's hidden; ENM by what's agreed. Here's why the difference isn't semantics, and how to answer the question with grace.
What Is DADT (Don't Ask, Don't Tell) in Non-Monogamy
DADT gets a bad rap. People hear "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and assume secrecy, avoidance or a relationship built on not-knowing.
Polyamory vs. Open Relationship vs. Swinging
Non-monogamy terms get used interchangeably, but they're not. Here's how to tell them apart and pick the structure that fits you.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?
The Jealousy Reset Protocol
Jealousy isn't the problem. What you do in the sixty seconds after you feel it, that's the whole ballgame.
Is Non-Monogamy a Sign Something's Missing?
That second thought is the dominant cultural script, and it shows up almost everywhere people go looking for answers, including in AI relationship tools.
My Partner Wants to Open Our Relationship and I Don't
I'll lead with what's wrong with him, or with how a genuine desire and a genuine no can only end one way: slowly, in silence.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.
Nudist vs. Clothing-Optional Travel Destinations: What's the Difference?
The real difference between nudist and clothing-optional travel, and how to pick the one that fits your desires.
Swingers Cruises Dos and Don’ts: Your Guide to Smooth Sailing
How to flirt and pace yourself on a swingers cruise so your week at sea leaves you glowing.
Swinger Parties in California: From Bay Area Estates to the High Desert
In California, vetting is the foreplay and access is the reward.
The Art of Lasting Desire: How Long-Term Swingers Stay Hot
The secrets, rituals, and mindset shifts that keep seasoned swingers sizzling year after year.
What to Expect on a Swingers Cruise
What really happens on a swingers cruise? From ship layout to etiquette, get all the details here.
What Newbie Swingers Get Wrong and How to Avoid Common Pitfalls
Essential insights for beginners stepping into the swinging lifestyle.
Swinger Clubs in California: From the Bay Area to the Desert
The hard part about swinging in California isn't finding a club, it's choosing one.
Swingers Clubs in Houston: Inside the Bayou City Lifestyle Scene
Houston keeps its best rooms quiet, and the couples who find them keep coming back.
Swingers Clubs in South Florida: From Miami to West Palm
Where the forecast always calls for a very seductive weekend.