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VoyeurX: Where Fetish Meets Fashion
Who is the kinky mind behind the luxuriously refined VoyeurX brand and hand-crafted fashions? Learn more in this exclusive interview!

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The Pressures Men Face
Dr. Laurie and Johnny Elsasser, host of The Art of Masculinity podcast, talk about men and body image, masculinity, and more.


Perfecting Masturbation
Dr. Laurie discusses perfecting masturbation with Global Sexuality Speaker & Sex Columnist Niki Davis-Fainbloom.

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Understanding Sexual Compatibility
Dr. Laurie discusses sexual compatibility, a hot topic in the open lifestyle.

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When Does Voyeurism Cross the Line?
Dr. Laurie talks about if or when voyeurism and exhibitionism cross the line.


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Her Guilty Confessions: An Interview with René Moon
Lexi talks all things fantasy with René Moon in this exclusive interview.

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African-American Marriage, Ethical Non-Monogamy, & Modern Love
Taylor Sparks and Eve dive into the rich history of African-American marriage and the enduring legacy of love. Join us on the journey that explores historical roots, ethical non-monogamy, and the evolving landscape of modern love and its many shades.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 6
Emotional Monogamy: Emotional exclusivity is a common characteristic of monogamous relationships, where partners often seek emotional fulfillment exclusively from each other.


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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.

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Surviving a Breakup in the Lifestyle
Here are some tips to heal from a breakup for yourself and your partner.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 3
Shared Resources and Time: Monogamous couples typically share their resources, time, and responsibilities with one partner.


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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 4
Relationship Hierarchy: In monogamous relationships, the romantic partner often holds the highest priority in terms of emotional and time investment.

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Seduction, Flirting, and the Art of the Tease
Explore the art of seduction, flirting, teasing, and the power of sexual anticipation in this sexy new podcast called Please Me!

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30 Best Sex Toys for Adults to Spice Up Your Sex Life
Whether you’re craving spicier solo play or more orgasmic partnered sex, here are the best sex toys to check out in your favorite sex shops.


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R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Lauren explains why respect is one of her favorite aspects of the lifestyle.

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Don't Fire the Secretary: Stress and Emotional Sovereignty
It is difficult to see our partners in emotional distress, especially if we feel our actions have caused or contributed to it. The knee-jerk reaction to fix the problem by removing the stressor is not necessarily always the healthiest answer. Surprising? Read on...

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What is a Swinger Unicorn?
In the sex clubs and swinger lifestyle, there are a ton of single swingers, not just couples. Learn why we call single women "unicorns" and why single men are referred to as "bulls."


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The Perils of Personal Silicone Lubricant: Why Health Matters
In the realm of intimate products, silicone-based lubricants have gained popularity due to their smooth texture and long-lasting capabilities. However, beneath the allure of convenience lies a concerning truth: personal silicone lubricants may not be the healthiest option for intimate use.

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Relationship Enhancement with The Power of Shared Reading
Couples can strengthen their connection by reading together. Here's how and why it works.

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My Journey Into Ethical Non-Monogamy
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES


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Running Towards a Cliff
In Rio de Janeiro, she decided to go hang gliding. Running towards a cliff's edge proved difficult. There have been times in the lifestyle when she thinks the same dynamic is at play.

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To Tell or Not to Tell
The dilemma (for many) around telling vanilla friends and family about the lifestyle