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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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Cap d’Agde 101: Where Naturism and Swinging Meet
One of the sexiest destinations in Europe, Cap d’Agde lets you explore how naturism and the swinging lifestyle mix in this one-of-a-kind destination.

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Offense vs. Defense: The Game Playing Out in Relationships
What if relationship growth didn’t have to come from conflict or repair? This article unpacks the idea of offense vs. defense in relationships, using a real retreat insight to explore how proactive care, intentional connection, and ongoing maintenance can deepen intimacy — particularly within ethical non-monogamy.

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Swinging in Paris: Inside the City of Light’s Lifestyle Scene
In Paris’s after-hours landscape, attraction and opportunity for open-minded swingers are always ready to unfold.


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How Swinging Can Improve Your Marriage
Can an open relationship boost your marriage? Read on!

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.


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Swingers & Social Media: Navigating Privacy in the Digital Age
How swingers can discreetly explore digital spaces with a sexy sense of confidence.

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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.


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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.

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12 Benefits of the Swinging Lifestyle
Discover how the swinger lifestyle can transform your relationship!

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?


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Is There Cheating in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Do swingers cheat? Can there be cheating in an open relationship?

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How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle

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An Introvert's Guide to Enjoying Swinger Parties and Events
Nervous about your first swinger party because you're introverted or shy? Here's the truth: you don't just have to survive lifestyle events — you can actually enjoy them. You just have to get into the swing of things.