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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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Lying vs Withholding in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Lying vs Withholding in ENM: Not lying isn’t the same as being fully honest.

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Privacy vs Secrecy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
In ethical non-monogamy, privacy honors boundaries — but secrecy destroys trust.

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Stop Trying Not to Want What You Want
Let’s talk about something that too many people navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM) silently wrestle with: You’re trying not to want what you actually want.


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SDC.com Partners with Bliss Cruise
SDC.com, the world’s largest international community for open-minded couples and singles, has just announced their partnership with Bliss Cruise, the premier leader in lifestyle cruising.

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10 Signs Another Couple is Interested in Playing with You
From eye contact to subtle touches, these 10 signs will help you read the room and know when it’s time to take things to the next level.

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Ethical Non-Monogamy vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy
If you've been exploring open relationships, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures, you've likely come across the terms Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).


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What Regular Therapists Don’t Get About Ethical Non-Monogamy
Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.

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A Real Couple's First Time Swapping
Jason and Stephanie share their story of guiding a newbie couple through their first swinging experience.

Glamorous Couple Posing SDC Valentine's Spotlight 2025
Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.


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Awkward Stories: 3 Real-Life Soft Swap Adventures
Jason and Stephanie open up about three of their most memorable — and hilariously awkward — soft swap experiences.

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Dirty 30s Birthday Sex
Jason and Stephanie Class discuss their plans for Stephanie's Birthday... which is nothing.

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From Vanilla to... Spicy?
Ever wondered how a shy, naïve, barely-ever-touched-a-vibrator girl transforms into a full-on, sex-positive content creator?


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Interview with Hedo Joe
Joe Canino shares his experience and insights about Hedonism II in Jamaica, a popular vacation spot for those in the lifestyle.

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You Want to Go to a Swingers Resort
Stephanie and Jason discuss the thought process leading up to their first trip to Hedonism in Jamaica.

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Embracing Your Sexuality While Everyone is Watching!
Hosts Jason and Stephanie Class introduce themselves, emphasizing the importance of embracing their awkwardness and being genuine in their content.