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You don't have to be in a relationship to be a swinger and enjoy the open lifestyle. Single swingers and polyamorous people, learn how to navigate the open lifestyle with these expert tips.
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VoyeurX: Where Fetish Meets Fashion
Who is the kinky mind behind the luxuriously refined VoyeurX brand and hand-crafted fashions? Learn more in this exclusive interview!

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Commitment Phobia, Modern Dating, and Non-Monogamy
You swipe, match, chat... and then repeat. For a woman, modern dating has become a never-ending loop of potential connections.


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Life of a Criminal Defense Atty Turned Adult Content Creator
Join Dan and Lacy as they explore the fascinating story of Sydney LaVie.

Personal Hygiene and Attraction
Dr. Laurie discusses personal hygiene, attraction, and sex.

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When Does Voyeurism Cross the Line?
Dr. Laurie talks about if or when voyeurism and exhibitionism cross the line.


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Understanding Sexual Compatibility
Dr. Laurie discusses sexual compatibility, a hot topic in the open lifestyle.

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The Pressures Men Face
Dr. Laurie and Johnny Elsasser, host of The Art of Masculinity podcast, talk about men and body image, masculinity, and more.

Perfecting Masturbation
Dr. Laurie discusses perfecting masturbation with Global Sexuality Speaker & Sex Columnist Niki Davis-Fainbloom.


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Her Guilty Confessions: An Interview with René Moon
Lexi talks all things fantasy with René Moon in this exclusive interview.

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African-American Marriage, Ethical Non-Monogamy, & Modern Love
Taylor Sparks and Eve dive into the rich history of African-American marriage and the enduring legacy of love. Join us on the journey that explores historical roots, ethical non-monogamy, and the evolving landscape of modern love and its many shades.

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BlkTouch's Brian Dwayne on Black Erotica
Showcasing the beauty and sensuality of Black people in both an exotic and erotic medium, both in still and movement on film, is greatly accomplished by Brian Dwayne, founder of BlkTouch.


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Health & Wellness Advocate Shae on Self-love
Sisters of Sexuality Podcast Taylor Sparks takes a deep dive into the life, experience, and education of Sex Educator and Health & Wellness Advocate Shae Alexander.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 3
Shared Resources and Time: Monogamous couples typically share their resources, time, and responsibilities with one partner.


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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 4
Relationship Hierarchy: In monogamous relationships, the romantic partner often holds the highest priority in terms of emotional and time investment.

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Seduction, Flirting, and the Art of the Tease
Explore the art of seduction, flirting, teasing, and the power of sexual anticipation in this sexy new podcast called Please Me!

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30 Best Sex Toys for Adults to Spice Up Your Sex Life
Whether you’re craving spicier solo play or more orgasmic partnered sex, here are the best sex toys to check out in your favorite sex shops.


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No More Shaming Women's Bodies
Find out how Women’s bodies have been scrutinized and body shamed now and historically and how we can overcome it.

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The Dark Side of Ghosting in the Swinger Lifestyle
Can we all agree that ghosting sucks and is rude, but it is a part of life now? Learn how to deal with ghosting and its alternatives.

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R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Lauren explains why respect is one of her favorite aspects of the lifestyle.


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Be the Better Bull
The how, the what, and the who of recreational sex with a Hotwife

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Don't Fire the Secretary: Stress and Emotional Sovereignty
It is difficult to see our partners in emotional distress, especially if we feel our actions have caused or contributed to it. The knee-jerk reaction to fix the problem by removing the stressor is not necessarily always the healthiest answer. Surprising? Read on...

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How to Say No at a Sex Club Respectfully
There is no room for people-pleasing in the swinger and sex club lifestyle. Learn HOW to say no firmly and respectfully with these tips.