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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Should You Use Condoms for Blowjobs?
Well, “Antibiotic Resistant Gonorrhea of the Throat” is a real thing.

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Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide
If you're curious about clubbing in the world of non-monogamy, consider this series of tips and tricks your new best friend.

SDC Openlove 101 Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide Swingers Open Nightlife
Newbie Guide: You're at the Club. Now What?
It's time to put our tips and tricks into action!


Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Find Fit Swinger Couples
The right couple doesn't just check boxes; they match your energy, your lifestyle, and your standards.

SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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Newbie Guide: The Pre-Club Talk & Prep
Don't roll up to the club without these essential tips!

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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How to Handle Rejection in the Swinging Lifestyle
Because it happens to everyone, and how you respond says a lot about your reputation.

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

Observations from a Shrink on a Lifestyle Cruise: Myths About Swingers
Join me for a few moments as I share with you how my experience with an unlikely group of people -- known as “swingers” -- challenged every sacred assumption I held sacrosanct as I take on the “Myths About Swingers” I had about this growing community.


What is Hotwifing REALLY Like?
Many people question why a couple would choose to play apart, and sometimes even assume that they do so because they just want to have sex with someone besides each other. In truth, the exact opposite is true.

SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!