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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.

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Should You Use Condoms for Blowjobs?
Well, “Antibiotic Resistant Gonorrhea of the Throat” is a real thing.


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Our Secret Weapon for Breaking the Ice & Mind-Blowing Orgasms
Find out how Tom and Bunny use Motorbunny to meet — and please — new people in the swinging lifestyle

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Unicorn Hunting: 5 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
One of the most popular fantasies is also one of the most complicated and difficult to achieve, but not all hope is lost!

Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!

SDC Openlove 101 Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide Swingers Open Nightlife
Newbie Guide: You're at the Club. Now What?
It's time to put our tips and tricks into action!

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Our First Hotwife Experience
What you’re about to read is an excerpt Gabe found relevant to share with those new to the Lifestyle, those starting out in the Hotwife Lifestyle, and seasoned swingers as well.


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Newbie Guide: Lifestyle Club Etiquette
Follow these guidelines, and you're sure to feel right at home at your local LS club.

 Caliente Clothing Optional Resort Open Lifestyle Destination
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.