Netherlands
Sex, drugs, and rock ‘n roll are immediately on the top of the list when you ask people about The Kingdom of The Netherlands. Quickly followed by tulips, windmills, bicycles, clogs, and of course the Red-Light District in Amsterdam. There is, however, so much more to discover in the 12 provinces that make up the whole of Holland. The Netherlands is home to a delightful open-minded Dutch populace. There is a well-established and widely accepted LGBTQIA+, swingers, and fetish scene. Apart from Amsterdam, there are plenty more awesome cities to explore like Rotterdam, Utrecht, The Hague, Groningen, Maastricht, and their surrounding areas. The Netherlands offers erotic daters, swingers, and anyone else with a bit of a playful, naughty mind a happening nightlife, plus an ultra-sexy dance festival season each year. The Netherlands is the ultimate European country to feel right at home and to start — or continue — a sexy journey. Discover the most exciting swingers' clubs and lifestyle and kinky fetish parties on your own, together, and with other like-minded couples and singles.
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Swingers Clubs
Dutch people love sex and are quite direct and outspoken. Whether you are going in for your first club visit or you have been to many, there are many excellent swinger clubs in The Netherlands to choose from which offer something for everyone. Whatever fantasy or fetish you are into, you’ll find it. Most will have theme nights or a dress code and the conditions for entering may differ here and there so make sure to check these at SDC.com as you plan your visit. The Netherlands is home to the #1 swingers club in Europe, so broaden your horizon and discover Dutch swingers!
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Swingers Parties
A sexy nightlife is what Amsterdam and several other cities in The Netherlands are known for. Erotic parties for the non-monogamous are also popular and well-visited. Tickets tend to sell out quickly, so make sure you get yours on time. The parties range from super kinky to very classy. You can count on the best DJs, erotic entertainment, and special effects for a never-ending wow factor. These parties and events don't disappoint! Swingers from all over the world flock to Holland to enjoy a diverse selection of events at swingers' clubs and erotic parties. The SDC World Party usually takes place in November in Utrecht as well!
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Erotic Boutiques
Do you have a strong desire to up the excitement and love the game of seduction? There are still a great many brick-and-mortar adult stores. There is nothing quite like "feeling" a sex toy and trying on a sexy outfit or some lingerie. It's so much better than just ordering everything off of your computer screen.
You can find a great selection of choices by clicking on the resource page links below to narrow down your options, depending on which area of The Netherlands you'll be staying and playing.
There are, of course, several online specialized stores in The Netherlands that will ship out the same day to your location during your visit.
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BDSM / Fetish
In the Netherlands, laws are liberal and reasonable when it comes to being kinky. Consenting adults are allowed their pleasure. Fetish parties in Holland, just like anywhere else in the world, usually maintain a strict entrance policy, and a strict dress code is generally observed for access. The Netherlands has many parties, big and small, where lacquer, leather, rubber, PVC, fetish glam, gothic, bondage, cyber, fantasy, punk, and any kind of fetish dress is an absolute feast for the eyes. It’s not unusual for these parties to also offer specialized workshops about activities like fire play, caning, and single tail sessions, etc. so that newbies and veterans in the BDSM scene can learn and then practice safe techniques. A few of the biggest and internationally well-known fetish parties are taking place in The Netherlands, and you can find them below amongst other interesting businesses.
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Lifestyle-Friendly BNBs
As a country with many lifestyle-oriented parties, it is good to know that many event organizers offer special arrangements or even free shuttle services in collaborations with hotels in the vicinity of the event or party. There are however also choices beyond the standard hotel setting that may whet your appetite when it comes to your wish to stay in a a romantic or outright sexy adult-only B&Bs. If you love different, how about an adventurous stay in an actual crane?
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Boudoir / Erotic Photography
In a world of ultimate seduction, it is always a great idea to have yourselves captured on camera by a professional. Pictures are an important element in the world of swinging, where you can become your very own business card. It’s always an unforgettable experience to begin with and will be so worth those extra clicks you’ll receive online to lead to extraordinary lifestyle experiences offline.
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Saunas / Wet Clubs
The Dutch sauna experience is an in-the-buff, co-ed kind of deal. Nakedness is usually kept for the hot sauna, steam bath, and the showers. Some saunas / wet clubs are 100% geared toward the swingers’ community, where there are disco nights, theme parties, and specialty playrooms. Other saunas are regular but organize nights for swingers.
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Bars & Lounges
Laidback evenings with like-minded others — whether it be under-the-radar munches or the first of many meet-&-greets with potential hotwives, cuckolds, unicorns, bulls, or hot lifestyle couples — usually take place at the many fantastic bars and lounges that add to the vibe. The Netherlands is a gracious host with a wide variety of bars and lounges to suit every taste.
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Nude Beaches
With 280 miles of coast there is a surplus of beaches to enjoy where you can hug the sand, sun, and sea in the buff. Most of these beaches have been allocated by the government and are clearly marked with a sign. Topless sunbathing is allowed on most beaches unless otherwise indicated. The Dutch are very tolerant of nudity on beaches, though sexual activity where others are around is highly frowned upon. Below are some official nudist beaches but do check where the marked poles are. There are too many to mention here but to name a few nice bare it your all areas:
- Zilverstrand – Almere
- Ja, Natuurlijk – Callantsoog
- Naaktstrand – Kijkduin/The Hague
- Zuiderstrand – The Hague
- Maarsseveense Plassen – Utrecht
- Het Hoornse Meer – Groningen
- Het Twiske – Zandvoort
- Bussloo – Voorst
- Naakstrand – Scheveningen
- Naakstrand – Vlieland
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Special Mention
The Red-Light District, but of course! This is a fun-filled area in The Netherlands called “De Wallen” in the oldest part of Amsterdam, close to Central Station. The Red-Light District is one of the major places where the oldest trade in the world takes place — the legal way. Now, even though prostitution is considered a professional trade and is regulated in an effort to keep the ladies of the night safe and healthy, make no mistake because street prostitution is absolutely illegal. In the Red-Light District, you’ll find about 400 windows with red lights indicating they are in business. Blue lights mean there is a transgender person or cross-dresser behind the glass. There are not only brothels here, come after 11 pm, and you’ll find vibrant streets full of people visiting the many cozy bars, restaurants, sex shops, coffee shops (mind you, no coffee is sold here), erotic museums, strip clubs, sex shows, and more.
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| NAME | CITY | TYPE |
|---|---|---|
THELUREPERFUME |
Hoorn | Shop |
5TH Dimension |
Arnhem | Party |
ADDICTED2YOU |
Lelystad | Party |
Amsterdam Techno Records |
Amsterdam | Party |
Angelique |
Harmelen | Shop |
Aspherical fotografie |
Houten | Photography |
BACKTOBASIC |
Breukelen | Party |
BDSM AT HOME |
Rhoon | Shop |
Bed and breakfast? In style |
Dodewaard | BNB |
BePrivileged |
Amsterdam | Party |
Beyonders Events |
Amsterdam | Party |
Bi Back to Basic |
Utrecht | Party |
BLACKRED |
Amsterdam | Party |
BLT&D |
Klein Curaçao | BNB |
BNBFUNSTEL |
Haastrecht | BNB |
Boudoir Babes |
Alkmaar | Photography |
Boudoir Bizarre |
IJland | Party |
Brigitte Peters Fotografie |
Venlo | Photography |
Buscamp |
Eindhoven | BNB |
By Guilty Pleasure |
Heijen | BNB |
Casa Fantasia |
Lelystad | Party |
Casa Lesia |
Sint Maarten | BNB |
CasaSutra |
Amsterdam | Party |
Caviar de la Nuit |
Nederland | Party |
Chiqret |
Rotterdam | Shop |
Chocolate Sensation Events |
Almere | Party |
Class-Rooms bouwt droom kamers |
Alkmaar | Business |
CLINIC PARTY |
Amsterdam | Party |
Club Luxoria |
Wagenborgen | Club |
Club Organza |
Maarssen | Club |
Club Paradise |
Amsterdam | Party |
Club Showboat |
Zaandijk | Club |
Clubwear Company |
Voorst | Shop |
Crazyland |
Almere-Buiten | Party |
Cupido helmond |
Helmond | Business |
Datenightbox |
Rotterdam | Business |
De Befbaars |
Haarlem | Business |
DE Lijsterhof |
Domburg | BNB |
Desire 4 passion |
Spijkenisse | Shop |
Dirty-Sound |
Maarssen | Party |
Doma SM Suite |
Den Haag | BNB |
Duincies |
Wassenaar | Shop |
EAPH Gert Jan van Noorden |
Rotterdam | Photography |
Erofeestjes |
Breukelen | Party |
Erolife-Style |
Leeuwarden | Shop |
Eroroma |
Zwinderen | Club |
Eroshop Love&Play |
Deventer | Shop |
Erotheek Cupido |
St Trudostraat | Shop |
Erotheek Freya |
Hulst | Club |
Erotheek Hengelo |
Hengelo | Business |
Erotic Bar Sameplace |
Amsterdam | Club |
Erotic Sauna Steamworks |
Arnhem | Club |
EroticCinema Arnhem |
Arnhem | Business |
Erotictantra |
Assen | Party |
Erotictreasure |
Dordrecht | Shop |
Event Lounge |
Lelystad | Party |
Exceptionnel |
Kerkrade | Party |
Exclusive Minds |
Amsterdam | Party |
Extase Clubwear |
Zwolle | Shop |
Eyerotica |
Hoogeveen | Photography |
Fantastisch seksleven |
Nieuwkoop | Business |
Faralda Crane Hotel |
NDSM-plein | BNB |
Fata-morgana |
Muiden | Club |
Festival Dates |
Utrecht | Business |
Fetishdreamz |
Groningen | Party |
FlaMigo Events |
Zeeland | Party |
Folinki |
Oss | Shop |
Frency Koster Photography |
Schijndel | Photography |
Freyastuin |
Egmond aan den Hoef | BNB |
Fuckbox |
Boxtel | Party |
Fun4two |
Moordrecht | Club |
Hedonista |
Alphen aan den Rijn | Shop |
Hill's secret rooms |
Echt | BNB |
Hook Solutions |
Nijmegen | BNB |
HOT COCO AND CREAM |
Amsterdam | Party |
HOTXSPOT |
Waalwijk | Shop |
HUT16 |
Zutphen | BNB |
I Love Kinky |
Beesd | Business |
Indecent |
Beverwijk | Shop |
Izzy van der Horst |
Groningen | SDC Contributor |
Kamagra One |
Barendrecht | Shop |
KamaSutrA beurs |
Utrecht | Convention |
kinkHEARTED |
Amsterdam | Business |
Kinky On The Beach |
Den Haag | Party |
Kinky Paradise |
Lelystad | Party |
Kinkybacktobasic |
Den Haag | Party |
Kinkystal.com |
Amsterdam | Shop |
KinkyToday |
Groningen | Business |
Kunstzicht |
Dronten | Photography |
Landelijk beleven |
Kootwijkerbroek | BNB |
Laser Ontharen BYYESS |
Ulvenhout | Business |
Le Baron |
Heerewaarden | Club |
Leather Sensation |
Tilburg | Shop |
Lefstore Xclusive |
Zevenhuizen | Shop |
Lesalon |
Amsterdam | Club |
Lifeisgood |
Heeswijk-Dinther | BNB |
Little Sins |
Blaricum | Party |
Lokiandoxi |
Utrecht | SDC Contributor |
Lottelust |
Amsterdam | Business |
LoveDreams |
Purmerend | Shop |
Loversland |
Zwolle | Convention |
Luciano dos Santos Photography |
Den Haag | Photography |
Luxuria Events |
Rotterdam | Party |
Mad Men |
Gorinchem | Shop |
Madame Lucette |
The Hague | Party |
Madamejouet.com |
Amsterdam | Shop |
Maddy V |
Netherlands | SDC Contributor |
Mail & Female |
Amsterdam | Shop |
Mama's Secret |
Hoensbroek | Party |
Mara Dana Massage |
Zwolle | Business |
MAZE Den Haag |
Den Haag | Club |
Maze Enschede |
Enschede | Club |
MAZE GRONINGEN |
Groningen | Club |
Milou van PhotoSessions |
Eindhoven | Photography |
Mindy W |
Netherlands | SDC Contributor |
Miranda XXL |
Utrecht | Shop |
Misanacoaching |
Rotterdam | Business |
Misbehaved |
Hellevoetsluis | Shop |
Modea Fashion |
Maarssen | Shop |
mo-events |
Rotterdam | Business |
MOONHEELS |
Beneden-Leeuwen | Shop |
Moos Fashion |
Harstastate | Shop |
Moulin Rouge |
Amsterdam | Club |
Mountainhome |
Roermond | BNB |
Mrs. D |
Krommenie | Shop |
Mr-Stiff |
Amsterdam | Shop |
Myriam Photo |
Geldrop | Photography |
Nachtboetiek |
Amsterdam | Party |
Nachtfeestwinkel.nl |
Nijeveen | Shop |
Naughty Naughty |
Hoorn | Party |
Newside Eroticshop |
Amsterdam | Shop |
Nicks aan |
Utrecht | Party |
Paramourxm. |
Haarlem | Party |
Paren Sauna Joe |
Kerkrade | Club |
Parenclub Devils and Angels |
Susteren | Club |
Parenclub Monique |
Amsterdam | Club |
Parenclub Mystique |
Rucphen | Club |
parenclub Sabayland |
Dedemsvaart | Club |
PARTY40DOWN |
Utrecht | Party |
PartyPlayers |
Lelystad | Club |
Pineapple Events |
Breda | Party |
pleasure2gether |
Sittard | Club |
Pleasurements |
Amsterdam | Shop |
Prikkelz |
Lage Zwaluwe | Party |
Private Roermond.nl |
Roermond | Shop |
Private wellness Nijmegen |
Groesbeek | BNB |
Privatefun.nl |
Roermond | Shop |
PROVOCATEUR |
Zuringstraat | Shop |
pubichairmakeover |
Eindhoven | Shop |
Pure Lust Sex Shop |
Amsterdam | Shop |
Quasi Modo |
Rotterdam | Shop |
Red Rose Sex shop |
Amsterdam | Shop |
Rouze |
Utrecht | SDC Contributor |
S.C.F. Palm |
Twello | Business |
Sauna Javali |
Heerhugowaard | Club |
Saunaclub Le Grand |
Zundert | Club |
Saunaibiza |
Tilburg | Club |
SDC World Party |
Utrecht | Party |
SDCSHOP |
Utrecht | Shop |
Secret At the Farm |
Breda | Party |
SECRET EVENTS |
Amsterdam | Party |
Seksshop Mercedess |
The Hague | Shop |
Sensual PLayers |
Kofschip | Business |
SENSUALMINDED |
Dordrecht | Shop |
Sex Shop City |
Netherlands | Shop |
sex-positive extravaganza |
Amsterdam | Party |
Sexpower |
Bergen op Zoom | Business |
Sexshop de Dom |
Utrecht | Shop |
Sextoyland |
Emmen | Shop |
Sexxnation |
Groningen | Shop |
Sexy North |
Lelystad | Party |
Sexy Store |
Netherlands | Shop |
Sexyhogehakken.nl |
Rotterdam | Shop |
Sexylingerie |
Netherlands | Shop |
SFS |
Eindhoven | Business |
Sin Suite |
Haarlem | BNB |
Slapen in t Bos |
Apeldoorn | BNB |
Slaves for Passion |
Den Haag | Party |
Smart Fetish and Fantasy |
Amsterdam | Shop |
Soa Clinic |
Dreef | Business |
SoaZorg |
Bunnik | Shop |
Spanksterdam |
Amsterdam | Business |
Squirtopia |
Sliedrecht | Shop |
Stichting ZIZ |
The Hague | Business |
Stienstra Erotic Lifestyle |
Groningen | Shop |
Stilleto-Club |
Tilburg | Party |
Studio Monaco |
Amstelveen | Club |
Studio Watertoren |
Goes | BNB |
Swan's Seduction |
Amsterdam | Business |
Swingersclub Ultimate Dream |
Beek en Donk | Club |
SwingFun4You |
Den Haag | Party |
Taboo |
Nijmegen | Party |
Tantric Spirit |
Alphen aan den Rijn | Business |
Tantrischverwennen |
Rotterdam | Party |
Taxi Mattie |
Breda | Business |
TestDeutsch |
Breda | Club |
The Adventure Wheel |
Vlijmen | Business |
The Bronx |
Amsterdam | Shop |
The FunHouse |
Den Haag | Shop |
The Moodsbar |
Rotterdam | Club |
The New Tantra |
Amsterdam | Business |
The ROOM |
Amsterdam | Party |
The Secret Rooms |
Hulst | BNB |
The Suite Amsterdam |
Amsterdam | BNB |
TheWizard80 |
Goes | BNB |
topsecrettoys.nl |
Arnhem | Shop |
Toxic fetishparty |
Time Out | Business |
Triple xxx Parties |
Amsterdam | Party |
Tryout Massage |
Amsterdam | Business |
Tub and a Barrel |
Oss | Shop |
UEDME |
Almere | Party |
Undercover Bliss |
Rotterdam | Shop |
Underground Fetish |
Amsterdam | Shop |
Unleashed |
Amsterdam | Party |
Uschi Fotografie |
Alkmaar | Business |
Verbindingsweeekend |
Zwolle | Business |
Villa Zeewind |
Julianadorp | BNB |
VoyeurX |
Netherlands | Shop |
VoyeurX |
Amsterdam | SDC Contributor |
Wasteland |
Amsterdam | Party |
We |
Gorinchem | BNB |
Webers Holland |
Amsterdam | Shop |
WellnesshuisjeZeeland.nl |
Zeeuws-Vlaanderen | BNB |
Whow Events |
Zevenhuizen | Party |
Wilpenhof |
Wilp | Club |
Womaniser |
Apeldoorn | Shop |
Xaviera Hollander |
Amsterdam | BNB |
XXXRadio |
Alphen aan den Rijn | Business |
Yolanda Lingerie |
Lierweg | Shop |
Your lifestyle |
Heerlen | Shop |
Your Naked Skin Photography |
Eindhoven | Photography |
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Amsterdam is the perfect city for a rendezvous with those lusty-eyed couples and singles in the swingers lifestyle.
It’s no surprise that this 24-hours-a-day capital with elaborate canals adorned by beautiful 17th-century façades is the epicenter of sexy with exciting choices on its erotic menu. Amsterdam is home to a seductive world waiting to be discovered by experienced swingers in the swinging lifestyle, as well as erotic daters and lifestyle newbies.
We’re not just talking about the sensual red glow at night of the windows in the renowned red-light district, which is by far one of the most infamous red-light districts in the world and the number one tourist spot for anyone who visits Amsterdam from abroad. Amsterdam also embraces the LGBTQ+ community and is the proud host of the most famous annual gay boating parade in the world.
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If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.
Austria has been one of SDC’s favorite go-to countries for yearly ski events for many years in the past. With its glorious mountains, picturesque ski towns, and daily après-ski parties, Austria is pretty much the ultimate swingers winter vacation retreat. Even though the country has a somewhat reserved reputation, nothing is further from the truth! There is so much to discover together and with like-minded others that one visit will not be enough!
Belgium offers anything from beaches to hilltops in the Ardennes, making it ideal for outdoorsy people. Romantics at heart are well-served, as many cities are offering up a diverse palette of medieval architecture and ditto atmosphere. Belgium is also a very sexually-infused country with an abundance of swinger clubs and other sexy locales for the naughty at heart. So, swinger couples and sexy singles, erotic dates, and hotwives can enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest and find what they are looking for.
The erotic pulse of the State of California is palpable. Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego are most certainly sublime places for sexy players of the like-minded kind looking to unlock their fantasies. With a line-up of naughty soirees for the bi-curious, erotic daters, swingers, kinksters, dungeon seekers, and/or the otherwise hedonistically inclined, the many mansions, clubs, and parties all around the towns are an awesome way to test the waters and/or rock the boat for novices and well-versed players alike.
Canada is not only a spectacular place to visit — it’s also a diverse country that is wonderfully open-minded and embraces all alternative lifestyles, including swinging. Apart from a broad selection of clubs, parties, and events for swingers and erotic daters, the LGBTQIA+ community is graciously supported and embraced as well. Polyamory is on the rise in Canada, where November 23 has been dedicated as National Polyamory Day. Polyamory is the practice of having more than one intimate relationship with consent, which has been determined legal in Canada.
This resource page does not claim to be 100% complete or accurate and will be subject to change and/or updates without notice.